"Three Moves to Meng Mu" tells that Meng Mu moved to two places for a good educational environment, which shows that a good humanistic environment is very important for children's success and personality development.
However, my family has been hit by mistakes, and family conditions have caused this situation. When my son was two years old, I took him to live in my husband's university.
This is a university town, the campus is full of young men and women, and the environment is very beautiful, with a huge rubber runway, a grassy football field, a magnificent library and an oversized basketball court. There is an endless lake near the school, and the lake is sparkling. The lake is full of villas where rich people live. The whole environment is particularly quiet and broad, with a scholarly atmosphere. After work, the three of us went to the lake under the setting sun.
Influenced by the environment, the timid son gradually developed a lively, sunny and independent personality habit. We live in a student apartment, and our son is the smallest one in the whole campus and has become the favorite of college students. After class, we competed to play with him. When he was over three years old, we took him to learn skating, playing basketball, playing football and dancing in the open air, so crazy that he sweated every day.
I work in a printing factory in the university. Every day I face books, including famous magazines, weekly magazines, comic books and textbooks. Take my son to play on weekends, and he will sit there and watch the comics that have just been released. At home, we adults also have a book in our hands, and our son only has a book. Later, the books at home couldn't satisfy him, so we asked to go back and forth by bus for three or four hours to read in the provincial library. One day at a time. This is the direct effect of words and deeds!
Because we are busy and hard at work, and there is a strong learning atmosphere around us, our son will be sensible when he goes to kindergarten and will not give us any trouble. The first thing he does when he comes back from school is to do his homework first. Even if he has a candle, he has to finish his homework before going out to play.
In addition to reading books on weekends, I sometimes go to the printing factory to help install books to make money. I take this opportunity to teach him to make money to buy any toys he wants, so that he can delay meeting his needs and will not be too headstrong and independent in the future. At the same time, I know the hard work of making money, and I won't spend money indiscriminately. Mopping the floor and collecting toys at home are also paid, which can also arouse his enthusiasm.
Because of reading books and dealing with college students for a long time, my son's vision and pattern have been broadened, and he is more confident, generous, sunny and eloquent. When I was in kindergarten, I won the certificate of "Story King" many times, and my mental arithmetic was also very good, and my singing was also very good. The teacher likes him very much.
For a good learning environment, when our son was in the third grade, we bought a new house and moved back with our family. After leaving the university environment, my son still loves the habit of reading, playing basketball and skating, and still goes to the book city to read.
At this time, I began to cultivate his hobby of watching movies again, insisting on choosing an excellent DVD that suits him every week and never stopping. Film selection is also a topic of interest to children, but also a classic. Whether the musical lines and pictures are beautiful or not, we adults need to choose carefully. What is not desirable is that those poorly photographed and low-level market-oriented dishes can not bring good learning content to children except stimulation. For example, Miyazaki Hayao's animation series has rich imagination, attractive themes and touching music. Many adults like to watch it. Such a theme has subtly educated children.
When my son is in grade four or five, he will cultivate his son's interest in English and lay a good foundation for junior high school. Still looking for a breakthrough from the movie, I searched some English soundtracks and showed them to him with Chinese subtitles. My son likes rabbits and dogs very much, so I will find plots to attract him to show him films about animals, such as "The Eight Heroes of Loyal Dogs", as well as "Escape from the Wild", "A Beautiful Life", "The King's Speech", "Xiao" and "The Shawshank Redemption". I watched their English, history and love with my children.
If children watch more foreign languages, their thinking will not be limited and their horizons will be broadened. The most important thing is the continuous improvement of English listening level. The junior high school English teacher praised his son for his good English listening and excellent English composition, and he was a model essay in the class many times. English is one of the best in the class.
My son is a distribution student in grade three and can be admitted to a key high school. In the end, his self-study exam was 40 points higher than the score of key high schools. My son's college entrance examination is coming, and his English is still very good. Although his total score is not outstanding, it may have fallen during the online class of the epidemic. Because I am obsessed with mobile games, my grades have slowly increased.
In a word, children's growth is closely related to watching useful movies, reading more books and aerobic exercise besides their parents' companionship and growing environment. Letting children watch movies has been going on in my family for many years, and it is very effective. Children should be less exposed to mobile phones, and adults should play mobile phones less in front of children. If parents are confused and don't know how to educate their children, then show them movies!