Grandma sent gold jewelry to bless her growth, which was funded by her grandmother.

Grandma arranged it, and mom and dad were responsible for it. I invited my mother's family, my grandmother's family, my grandfather's sisters and family, but no uncles. Although I don't understand it very well, I started to prepare the wedding gift box. I packed five samples early, with Wang Zi milk, eggs and sweet rice cakes, but I wanted my grandmother to prepare them and then pack them on the spot. On the day of the banquet, everyone was present to give out red envelopes. My mother was busy collecting red envelopes and counting gifts, and grandma was in charge of the rear gifts.

After the first experience, I can have a clear process of the whole process. A few years ago, I just played the role of eating well, and I grew up unconsciously.

It also made me understand what it means that the married daughter is not my own, and the raised daughter is the truth of others in the end. In this social structure, women basically live in the man's house after marriage, while the man continues to live with his parents after marriage. Even if they separated later, women were pulled out of the clan genealogy and became the accessories of men. It can be seen from the etiquette that only men are invited to the table at the annual clan banquet. Although the society advocates equality between men and women, in the whole social ethics, men are superior to women, and it is this social structure that leads women to want to have a boy even when they become mothers, so that they can stay with each other for longer.

There is still a long way to go to achieve gender equality.

As a point above.