In fact, when it comes to rural bad habits, there are still many. Some bad habits have been forgotten with the changes of the times, while others have become "uglier and uglier". For today, rural people know that many bad habits are really harmful. Let's look at the three bad habits mentioned this time.

First: high-priced bride price

The issue of bride price can be said to be an eternal bad habit, which is clear to both rural and urban people. From the perspective of historical development, Bian Xiao thinks that the bad habits in rural areas today are worse than those in ancient times. People used to live in a small circle. Although there were bride price and sky-high prices in ancient times, there was still a habit in ancient times, which was to pay attention to the right match.

With the development of society, the distance between people is getting smaller and smaller, and it is impossible to be completely suitable. In recent decades, the bride price has actually undergone earth-shaking changes. In the next 50 years, getting married may mean finding a strong man who can do farm work. Over time, you may be looking for someone who has read some books, and then a craftsman.

After careful observation, we will find that as long as they are centered on each other, most of them have no requirements for bride price. Just like 30 years ago, there may be many marriages that just bought a suit, ate at home, and even had no relatives and friends, so they came together. However, with the improvement of living conditions, many marriages are indispensable now, whether the other party is a ghost or not, which brings a huge burden to many families.

Second: comparison of human nature.

With the accelerated pace of life, the phenomenon of comparison in our village is not as serious as that of the younger generation, because it is difficult to get together because of the busy work now, but this phenomenon has not completely disappeared. Some families are easy to compare, bigger than houses, more powerful than relatives, more promising than future generations, and so on.

In fact, how many people live in the countryside now? If so, they have already lived in the city, and living in the city will be integrated into the fast-paced life of the city, and there is no time to compare. And living in the countryside, many are not for everyone, but they are the best. Just compare several uncles and aunts, mainly in front of children, and even children are involved.

Third: be buried with care.

In many rural areas, the dead always think that they have more "skills" than the living, so when they are alive, they would rather live worse than animals, and when they die, they will have a grand burial. Some poor families and elderly people who may die spend less money in their lifetime than when they died.

When I was alive, I lived alone in a house that was hot in summer and cold in winter, and the children couldn't see it. I began to pay attention when I died. From the funeral to the mountain, it is of high standard. Building a grave is more expensive than building a house. This is really unnecessary. If there is so much spare money, why not spend it while I am alive, so that the old people can live better and let the next generation know that poor education is wrong.

There will be rural areas in China in the future, but there are essential differences between the future rural areas and the present rural areas. The future countryside belongs to the countryside in the post-industrial era, the countryside in the information age, and the countryside where the post-industrial era and the information age overlap! At present, this rural form with agricultural civilization will be abandoned by history!