Every family is different. Generally, they are engaged first, that is, relatives of both sides meet for dinner. The house must be bought by the man, you can discuss it yourself, but the man will usually get it; Of course, there are also some women whose families are good enough to provide houses, so the man usually gives her hundreds of thousands or buys a car and so on. The woman must have bought the household appliances. If the man is in good condition, you don't have to buy it. Gifts are given before marriage, and there will be other gifts on the wedding day, such as changing the mouth. I wonder if your boyfriend is from the city or the county? There may be more attention below the county level, such as seeing the bride off at the wedding.