Should be appropriate,
Whether it is suitable or not depends on the situation, and it doesn't matter which city. First, it is appropriate if the woman's parents do what they can. Second, it depends on the bride price given by the man's parents. If the man's parents give 400,000 bride price, the woman gives 200,000. The man gave more than 600 thousand bride price, and the woman's parents gave less than 200 thousand. Third, whether it is appropriate or not cannot be measured by money alone. The key is whether two people have deep feelings, no matter how much the bride price and dowry are, they are still very happy. On the contrary, if the feelings are not deep, no matter how much the bride price and dowry are, it may not be happy. Generally speaking, the man doesn't care about the dowry. His daughters who have been raised for more than 20 years are all married to you. What do you care?
Depending on your financial conditions, give more if you have money, give less if you have money, and give nothing.
Find out what is appropriate and what is not. ! ? ! Especially what you think is appropriate or inappropriate! This is very important, design to the outlook on life and love!
At least you should know your own goals and ideas, and don't talk grandiose and deceive yourself. Just say your purpose simply and directly! ! If you want to live a good life in the future, the key is the boy's future, personality, and never give up, from beginning to end. As for the bride price, I can tell you clearly that 200,000, 500,000 or even 1 10,000 doesn't mean that you can live a happy life in the future! !
I'm not a person who hates bride price, and I don't mean to speak for anyone. The wise thing to do is to talk about the facts, how much the bride price is, and do what you can, but don't compare with others, but focus on the boy's character, world outlook and future.
For example, a boy who is filial to you after marriage, even more filial than his son, can always do it. Isn't this much more important than those bride price?
Now, for example, the bride price boy gives you 1 10,000 yuan. You are very beautiful. After 7 8 years of marriage, you will still make trouble every day and want a divorce, let alone treat your husband and wife well. Of course, if you insist that the more money, the better. That's your right.
A: Yes, there is nothing wrong with it.
First, this number is neither too much nor too little, just right. It is also the conscience price of an ordinary working class. It is inappropriate for parents to raise their daughters and give them a lot of money after marriage. This will encourage children to get something for nothing. Nowadays, young people are very lazy.
Second, dowry is a heart, a meaning, and no comparison is needed. The economic level of each family is different. Beijing's economic level, 200,000, is a relatively suitable price. The woman's parents can rest assured, that's enough, don't worry.
Third, the daughters of colleagues around me get married, which is generally10.002 billion. I haven't heard of any bigger numbers. Some will produce electrical appliances and furniture during decoration.
Marriage is a happy event, and it is best to do what you can. Nowadays, the social psychology of keeping up with the joneses is prevalent, and the family pressure is great. High bride price and high dowry are not good. As long as it is suitable, parents should think it over.
Whether in Beijing or other places, whether you marry a daughter or a daughter-in-law, you must live within your means. As long as you try your best, you can give your child as much money as you want. There is a gap between the rich and the poor in this world. It is impossible for everyone to become a millionaire, Yun and Wang Jianlin.
Nothing is suitable or inappropriate, but the greatest love for children.
Whether it is suitable or not depends on the situation of both men and women.
Marriage pays attention to the right family, not only the family conditions, but also the family style. Greater Beijing, the capital with the highest cultural level and civilized accomplishment of the motherland, should pay more attention to knowledge, accomplishment, potential and enterprising spirit, and at the same time consider the most basic material foundation. However, if men and women come from different regions and their family conditions and local customs are very different, then the amount of money they get when they get married will be very different.
First, Beijingers marry Beijingers. They are all from the capital. I'm afraid 200 thousand is a little too stingy to sell. What if the other person looks down on my daughter? So the car and house tickets are ready, unless the woman's parents object and look down on each other at all, that's another matter.
Second, Beijingers marry foreigners. If a foreigner marries a Beijinger, it sounds like envy and jealousy. Why? The word Beijing is valuable. Don't let poverty limit your imagination. Take things and measure them with money. Mom, a house is valuable even if it is a humble abode. Although it may not be heroic and rich, where is the real estate? Therefore, it will be a proud thing for rural women to marry Beijingers. The woman's family has the ability to take 200 thousand. Of course, if the bride's family has money, just take a small case of 200 thousand, and there is nothing wrong with 500 thousand. This is called equality between men and women, and the argument is also: parents are not all children, giving them early and giving them late, and the marriage is vigorous, magnificent and dignified.
Besides, if you marry a Beijinger, the future generations' hope of going to Tsinghua Peking University will be greatly increased. They are far-sighted, proud of their ancestors, and beautiful!
Third, both men and women are foreigners and work in Beijing. Young, although capable, but short graduation time, weak economy, the focus of marriage depends on parents. I can afford the down payment to buy a house, but I can't afford the down payment. I'll rent a house first. Everything is simple. My mother's family has a strong desire to raise children, and it is understandable to take 200 thousand. My mother's family is in financial difficulties, so it's normal not to take money. I have tried my best to provide graduate education for my children. The future platforms are all built by my children themselves. When you get married, you don't take money, and your mother's family is also a glorious parent.
No matter where the woman comes from, it costs a lot of money to get married in Beijing. The land is high and steep, and people have the power to do what they can according to their own conditions.
The economic base determines the superstructure, and it is appropriate to speak with money. No matter how much money you have, it is meaningful. If you have no money, you can take it. Parents can shelter their children from the wind and rain, but they are not lifelong debtors. Of course, other rich families can't compare. My uncle's assets are hundreds of millions, my daughter has found a better object than his family, and the only child has married the only child. This should be a marriage of economic superposition, with a suitable family, and it is normal for her family to spend more.
My niece goes to college in Beijing. After graduation, she worked in Beijing, rented a house, ate and drank, and didn't save much money for a year. If she gets married, no matter where she is, she needs the help of her parents. Why? Her four children and children are all waiting to buy a house in the city and marry a daughter-in-law after graduation. They have spent more than 100,000 yuan for my niece's university, but she can no longer afford the money. My attitude towards my niece is not to give a bride price or marry him. I will save as much as my salary, find what kind of object to manage by myself, don't participate, don't talk, take it home and make my own decisions and get a license.
Bless the children of the world to find a happy marriage and bless the parents of the world to be happy!
I think so.