Recently, I have seen many questions about bride price on the Internet. I come from Chongqing. Since childhood, there has never been the concept of bride price. If you want to get married, the man usually gives the woman 68,000 yuan, and the extra 1.2 million yuan is nothing like what you see on the Internet. After reading those online, I wonder if I have cognitive problems, but the situation in different provinces and cities in China is different. Chongqing (except a few areas) should be a place where bride price is basically not accepted or rarely accepted. Married in the city, never heard of bride price. Young people in Chongqing get married mainly because they can't get along. Because no daughter is married, it is not a family statement, so there is almost no need for bride price compensation or anything.
The family has the conditions to prepare a wedding room. If there are no conditions, it depends on whether two people have worked hard. It is said that there were more than 6,000 houses in the urban area four years ago, so it is really not too difficult to buy a house. Now the house price has gone up, but the municipality directly under the central government is not too high. If you bite the bullet and scrimp, you can settle down. If the family conditions of both parties are better, they will give the children some money to settle down. If the conditions are not good, it is difficult to scrape oil at the wedding. There is no such custom. Of course, Chongqing is so big that it does not rule out that some people point to getting married and making a fortune. When meeting such people, their outlook on life needs careful consideration. After all, spending money on marriage is one thing, and getting along with each other in the future is the big thing. By the way, the status of girls in Chongqing is relatively high. If the man does everything according to his husband's wishes in the name of making Chongqing's daughter-in-law obedient, then don't come. There is no need to be unhappy, is there?