There is another saying:
Cut the wedding cake
Cutting a wedding cake is a ceremony that dramatically shows male dominance. First of all, the groom guides the bride's hand to cut the first cake as proof that the bride obeys the groom. Then, the bride took the initiative to let the groom eat the first bite of cake, symbolizing letting the groom share her body. Then, as a protest, the bride threw the cake in her husband's face; However, it is not shameful for the groom to put up with all this. Finally, the bride wiped the cream off her husband's face to show her obedience to his wise judgment. Nowadays, most couples no longer experience this ceremony, and they regard cutting cakes as a blessing to their marriage.