This video is not fiction. It really happened in Tongren, Guizhou. The reason is that the day before the wedding, the groom Huang was arrested for theft, and the wedding is just around the corner. The two families also planned for many days to prepare for the wedding. Invitations have been sent out and the wedding is about to take place, but this happened. The groom's family thinks the bride is ashamed and is going to cancel the wedding, but the bride and groom have deep feelings and are unwilling to give up. They also want to use this wedding to influence the groom, turn over a new leaf and be a good person. On 202 1 1 28, the two families held the wedding as usual, and Huang's parents temporarily decided to let his sister marry his brother.
Marriage is a great event in life. Who doesn't want a romantic and grand wedding? My sister can't marry my brother. Netizens have been talking about this, thinking that the police are right to handle the case, but now it is a harmonious society. There are often cases of police handling cases in TV dramas and news. Cann't the police let the groom have the wedding first and then arrest people after that? Moreover, in the case of theft, the groom will not take risks and avoid arrest, which is not a worse crime. Netizens who disagreed said that the law is the law and the police are right to arrest people. This is responsible for the bride, who has every right to choose whether to continue to marry.
Everyone has a heated discussion about whether the bride should get married and whether it is in line with folk customs and ethics for her younger sister to marry her younger brother. Some people think that the bride is right, but the groom is sorry for the bride. The bride is loyal to love and willing to take risks. It is not easy to make this decision by awakening the groom's conscience with love and marriage. Some people think that there is no need for the bride to hold a wedding in a hurry, and it is more rational to take it slowly. Moreover, it is unreasonable to let my sister perform wedding obligations instead of my brother, which is a bit old-fashioned Who is right or wrong in this matter is inconclusive. To this end, on June 29th, 65438, Banchang Town People's Government issued a special notice to promote the establishment of a good concept of marriage and childbearing, and carried out publicity and education activities in the county to "promote the change of customs and establish a new civilized fashion".
In fact, it is neither illegal nor against the folk custom for an elder sister to marry her brother. In some areas, the groom is absent from the wedding for some reason, and it is customary for his sister or brother to hold the wedding instead of the groom. There is even the custom of replacing the groom with a rooster. In film and television dramas, you can often see similar shots. It's just that this custom is an emergency method under special circumstances, not a common phenomenon.
With the development of the times, people's views on marriage customs are also changing, such as advocating group weddings and bicycle weddings. Not long ago, a wedding in Shanghai could not be held as scheduled because of the epidemic, but the banquet was fixed. The bride and groom temporarily decided to simplify the wedding and pack food for relatives and friends who could not attend the wedding, which won unanimous praise from everyone. This is a new thing and timely. As far as things are concerned, it is against people's normal cognition that "my sister goes to church for my brother" in Tongren, Guizhou. Except that the bride's loyalty to love is commendable, the rest of the red tape is not worth advocating.
In ancient times, Mulan joined the army as her father, but now she has a younger sister to marry her older brother. Also married for my brother, Fan Piao's wedding was praised by all outlets. Fan Pu is a soldier. On the eve of the wedding, because the troops were recalled overnight to perform an urgent task, the bride was left alone and could not hold the wedding. Fan Pu has postponed the wedding for work many times. Everything is ready this time, except Fan Piao's east wind. Unexpectedly, he flew away again. The bride decided that the wedding would go on as usual, and Fan Pu's family decided to let her sister marry instead of her brother. It's not that "elder sister marries elder brother" is wrong, which goes against the conscience of marriage customs, but that the reasons for the groom's absence are different and the impact on society is different. Soldiers are forced to defend their country, which is positive energy; Huang's absence because of theft is negative energy. Moreover, as we all know, stealing is a habit that is difficult to change. While we are talking about it, we are also worried about the bride's decision.
As the saying goes, the wedding candle is one of the three happy events in life. On their wedding night, the bride in Tongren, Guizhou lived alone. Her heart must be complicated, Lacrimosa. If Huang is an upright person, the bride must be the happiest bride. If there is anything wrong in the whole thing, it must be the groom Huang. In life, people often take risks regardless of their wives and children and embark on the road of illegal crimes. Once they commit a crime, they make their loved ones suffer pain and humiliation. However, this farce is not without positive significance. To some extent, it gave a vivid life education lesson to those with ulterior motives. At the same time, I also hope that the bride's love and goodwill can call Huang back to turn over a new leaf, actively reform and come out as soon as possible, so that the family can reunite and live a happy little life.