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"Dear child" Fang Mu's practice was vomited by netizens. What should a mother-in-law do if she is dissatisfied with her son-in-law?
In Dear Children, and finally divorced. Apart from her own reasons, Fang's behavior was really improper and became one of the fuses, so what she did was spit out by netizens. Although Fang's mother often dislikes her son-in-law in front of the Xiao family after marriage, it really hurts. In fact, after the daughter gets married, even if the mother-in-law is dissatisfied with her son-in-law, she needs to have a degree. She will not expose people's shortcomings in public, only know how to respect and put forward opinions in time, or let her daughter play a bridge role in the middle to promote her correction.

First, the mother-in-law should also respect the son-in-law when she is dissatisfied.

In the play, Fang's mother treats her son-in-law like ordering her subordinates. She doesn't listen to any opinions of her son-in-law, but only does what she asks, which obviously shows that she doesn't respect her son-in-law. When two people get along, they are sincere. As the mother of the woman, the son-in-law will certainly show respect, but if he overuses this respect and hurts the other party, it will definitely damage the relationship between the two people, and in serious cases, it will also lay a thunder spot for his daughter's marriage. After the busy work, Lu Xiao has to face the strength of her mother-in-law, and the pressure will definitely be great, so she will not dare to go home, which will affect her daughter's marriage.

Second, put forward appropriate opinions and grasp the degree.

Although the mother-in-law has the right to put forward some opinions, in order to make the child's marriage better, the son-in-law is an adult male after all, and still needs self-esteem and face. If he is an elder and ignores his feelings, it will definitely hurt his self-esteem, especially in public, so when he is dissatisfied with his son-in-law, he can express his attitude from the side. At the same time, the daughter is a good mouthpiece, and some things can be revealed through her daughter. Of course, she must be able to deal with people, otherwise it will not only solve the problem, but also intensify the contradiction between them.

Generally speaking, since a daughter is married, it proves that she is an adult and can handle her own family affairs. Even if the mother-in-law is slightly dissatisfied with her son-in-law, don't show it publicly, which will affect family harmony. Respect is necessary, and it is also necessary to put forward some opinions occasionally, but we must master the ways and means, otherwise it will be extremely counterproductive.