If you get married, most of you have to get engaged first. (This engagement process is to see if two people can talk. If they can talk, you can go through the wedding process. When engaged, the man will give the bride price to the woman, buy hardware for his girlfriend and invite her relatives to dinner. All relatives who have finished eating will be given red envelopes, those who have gone will be given them, and those who have not gone will be sent to other relatives to bring them ~
If two people are engaged for a period of time, both parents and two people feel that there is no problem and can get married.
There are many tricks to get married, mainly the neighbors and friends of the man will quarrel with the bride's father-in-law, and the bride and groom will quarrel, and then the brothers of the bride's father-in-law will quarrel ~ There are various ways to make trouble ~ When getting married, first, the woman's house will put wine and invite neighbors and friends to dinner. In a couple of days, the man will pick up the bride at the woman's house and put wine at the man's house. When he picks it up, the woman's relatives will try their best not to let the groom in, which will result in giving the man red envelopes and cigarettes. The man will give red envelopes to his father-in-law's mother-in-law (in some places, wine and meat are given, but few people do this because it is too troublesome, and they usually give money); In fact, the woman will dress up the bride beautifully early in the morning, and then set a few tables at home. When the man's bridesmaids come, they will be invited to sit down, pour tea and smoke, and then bring the boiled eggs with red dates and longan that have been prepared for everyone to eat ~ After the man has finished eating, he will start setting off firecrackers, get married, get on the wedding car and go all the way to the man's house ~
At the man's house, the man's friends will start making trouble with the groom's cigarettes and red envelopes. Some will open the door of the newly arrived wedding car, take the bride away and hide it directly, so as not to let the groom near ~ Finally, when others are satisfied, they will let people go ~ When the relatives of the woman enter the man's house, the treatment will be the same as that mentioned above ~ After dinner, they will have dinner ~ At night, the man will start quarreling with the bride and her father-in-law, and the groom will be dragged aside by friends and smoked with cut bamboo (some will even be sent to the hospital, which is actually a very bad thing. What will make trouble is that it will last until morning or the next morning, and it will not break up after 12 in the evening ~
The bride will go back to her mother's house on the third day after entering the door, and then go back to the man's house after seeing it ~
That's basically it ~ but now Xiangyin's human feelings and wine-setting style are getting bigger and bigger.