The simple point is to bring gifts on the day of engagement (the amount of gifts depends on personal economic situation), "golden head" (that is, gifts) (an elder in the family, three pairs of mom and dad when engaged, each pair includes two pieces of direct ginseng, Wuliangye, Chinese cigarettes, a red envelope and other health care products, I forget whether it is even or odd). Use a red bag for each gold head. Also, prepare sugar and cakes (the quantity should be confirmed with the woman, packed in a small basket, accompanied by several people that day, and the quantity should be even). On that day, you should give all the children in their family red envelopes, and the brother-in-law's red envelopes should be bigger so that relatives and children can understand. Also, as soon as I entered the woman's house that day, I called her parents "Mom and Dad". There is also the need to communicate more with women, and some procedures in rural areas are more troublesome. Finally, congratulations on your engagement.