If you can giggle at her once a day, I don't think she will lose her temper. Emotions can also be contagious. If you are satisfied, I think she will complain less. )
Maybe you all give this marriage a good or bad evaluation in your mind. Why don't you recall how you first met and fell in love? Many of the things we got were ignored for a long time. )
As a partner, I think you should try your best to set an example for your other half. Your other half is not perfect and mature, and many of her behaviors need your understanding and forgiveness.
In life, we should do what we can, and don't do anything (because it's like stealing a clock, we can get nothing but punching our faces and filling our fat bodies). )
If you want to be photogenic, you can. But that's just someone else's opinion after all. Is it an important wedding for you, just a performance for those who have little to do with it?
She is too proud to take the bus. If you insist, she will stay with you, won't she? She has a lot of face, and I don't think she spends money lavishly (if she does, I think you will complain, too). So, it's just a little vanity of women. If you can, please satisfy her. If not, tell the truth. I think she will understand, instead of complaining about her vanity.
Don't haggle over each other's mistakes once or twice. When the other party makes a mistake, you can clearly say "you are wrong", but you don't have to admit it (just a reminder, after all, it takes courage to admit it, and not everyone has the courage to correct it). Don't cling to it. After all, the other party is not unreasonable.
Don't care too much about each other's shortcomings. After all, you are together because you see each other's advantages. Don't complain about each other's family, after all, this is not something that can be easily changed. Complaining does no good except make both sides feel uncomfortable.
Don't pay too much attention to each other's complaints. Sometimes, the other person is duplicitous, but you are serious. Isn't that asking for discomfort? You have been together for so long, you should be very clear about who the other person is and understand each other's thoughts.
I remember someone saying that when a mother-in-law quarrels with her daughter-in-law, it is always her son (husband) who is finally wrong. Although this sentence seems unreasonable. However, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really get along well because of you. It's her fault that she turned off the TV. You think she doesn't respect old people. Does that mean you don't consider her your family? If you were your brother or sister or yourself, you wouldn't think so if you quarreled with your parents. Is it because she is an outsider that she should do better? She is an outsider. How can you ask her to be filial to another outsider?
Speaking of it, if you are really busy with this wedding and ignore other things, it is normal for her to feel that there is nothing to be happy about getting married, because getting married seems to be buying people a drink. If someone at home can arrange your wedding, you might as well go out for a few days. The wedding is your wedding, not a burden. As long as you are happy, you can do whatever you want. The wedding is not a big deal, and the days ahead are still long. )
I think you still care about her thoughts, otherwise you wouldn't be entangled. Maybe you can tell her that you can handle the wedding. I think even if you don't do well, at the wedding, relatives and friends get together and send a bunch of blessings, she won't be unhappy. ), however, I don't recommend it. The approach of the wedding, in other words, is a small test for you, and something that you don't usually pay attention to will appear. If you can spend this time together in Qixin, it will be beneficial to your feelings and understanding.
Communicate your ideas with each other more, let her know you better, and then you can be satisfied, and vice versa.