Generosity is key. People are clothes and horses are saddles. It doesn't matter what you want at home, try to be calm, and it's worth fighting for your son's happiness. If children are free to fall in love, let the two children discuss it first. In particular, let girls communicate with their parents first, understand their parents' plans and themselves, and then go to the business association. If the marriage is introduced by a middleman, let the introducer go with him. Introducers can talk on both sides to facilitate negotiations. In particular, we should be careful not to express our position first, and let the woman's parents talk about their demands and opinions first. If you have no problem with the woman's request, you can agree directly. If you don't agree, gently tell the middleman what you think and let the middleman coordinate again.

After the coordination of major issues, the details of the marriage process should be settled through consultation. In particular, some differences in customs and procedures should be clarified to see which side's customs should be followed, so as to avoid mistakes and conflicts in time. Try to get ready first, so as not to be embarrassed when the two sides meet their in-laws, which is conducive to a harmonious atmosphere and can save time and reach an agreement as soon as possible. Some women go to the man's house first. In this case, our village often says that we should look after the banker. That is, to investigate the man's family on the spot, such as what house to live in? What are you doing at home? What big things are there at home? To put it bluntly, it depends on the economic base and neighborhood relations. Because the daughter will get married in the future, the economic foundation is very important, and the neighbor relationship can also reflect the behavior of the man's parents.

Of course, some people are embarrassed and don't want to go home first. Just choose a hotel in the city where the man or woman lives. In this way, if both sides feel inappropriate, they will not feel embarrassed. Letting parents meet may be that the relationship between two people has reached a certain stage. Try to promote this marriage. Therefore, parents should talk well with each other and find explanations when necessary to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. After all, different regions have different customs. If two people want to be together, they must work together.