1. ancestor worship: before leaving for Dafang's home, the man should first incense his ancestors and tell them something about them, and then go to Anonymous's home to find a job. Ask his ancestors to bless this happy marriage. The number of people who go to the woman's house with their husbands is 6 or 10 or 12, so the number of people who go to the woman's house with their husbands should be avoided. This is Mr. or Mr.. The number of tribute officials should be paired with the number of employees, and the elderly relatives and friends of the man's family should be employed, while the number of employees is generally six cars.

2. Nacai: The motorcade hired by the man goes to the woman's house, the man sets off firecrackers, and the woman also greets with firecrackers. The bride's brother will open the door for the groom, and then the groom will wash his hands. The groom should return a red envelope to express his gratitude. Then, Mr Boxer gave the bride's dowry to her father and brother. At this time, the matchmaker introduces the parents and relatives of both sides to know each other, and tells some auspicious words to add joy. Relatives and friends of both sides can also take this opportunity to greet each other. 3. Employment: The woman urges an elder who can live a long life to light candles, burn incense, offer cakes and presents in front of the ancestral temple, and pray silently to wish this woman a happy marriage. Then, that is, the matchmaker served as master of ceremonies, and the engagement ceremony began:

1. Offering sweet tea: Accompanied by the matchmaker, the bride-to-be presents sweet tea to the relatives and friends of her husband who came to apply for the job, and the matchmaker introduces them one by one, so that her husband's relatives can take the opportunity to see the bride.

2. Press tea: After the sweet tea is finished, the bride-to-be will hold out the tea tray and take away the teacups. At this time, the male guest should put the red envelope and the teacup on the tea tray, which is commonly known as "pressing tea".

3. Wear a ring: The groom takes out a gold ring and a bronze ring tied with a red line and wears it on the middle finger of the bride's right hand, symbolizing the eternal knot. But when wearing a ring, the middle finger is deliberately bent to avoid being eaten by the other party in the future.

4. Firecrackers: The engagement ceremony is over. At this time, the woman will set off firecrackers, and the parents of both sides will congratulate each other to form their children's in-laws and share the wedding cake with relatives and friends.

5. Engagement Wedding Reception: After the engagement ceremony is completed, the woman's family holds a banquet to entertain the man's guests and matchmaker. After the banquet, the man will give the woman a red envelope. After the banquet, the whole engagement ceremony will come to an end.

6. Reward: After the banquet, the man should leave as soon as possible and should not stay long. The woman should return some gifts to the man, such as 12 pieces of the groom's clothes and shoes, and let the man bring back several boxes of wedding cakes, incense, candles and a salute. At the same time, the man must not say goodbye to the other party when he goes home, because the next job is impossible to come again.

7. Ancestor ceremony: When the man goes home, he should make an ancestor ceremony to inform him that he has completed the wedding ceremony and share the wedding cake sent back by the woman with relatives and friends.