I have seen such a video on Weibo before. A girl borrowed a two-bar pregnancy test stick from her pregnant friend to test her boyfriend's feelings for herself. Then take a pregnancy test stick and talk to your boyfriend about pregnancy. When I heard that my girlfriend was pregnant, my boyfriend's face suddenly became gloomy. Then I went to the sofa and sat down, holding my head for a long time. The girls are anxiously waiting for her boyfriend's answer. After a long time, the girls seem a little lost and even want to cry. Then the boy came over and hugged the girl and told her that we were getting married. My girlfriend was very moved to hear this answer, but she thought that she had been hesitating just now.
I asked my boyfriend why he thought about it on the sofa for so long. The boy told her that he was worried about whether he was unable to give her and her children happiness. But in the end, the boy's love for the girl overcame his worries and panic about the future. He made it clear to himself that he would marry a girl and raise their children together. In the process of thinking, he even thought about how to make a family of three happy in the future. It turns out that the boy hesitated not because he didn't want to marry her, but because he was thinking about his future, which really touched the girl. But the paper can't cover the fire, and the girl told her boyfriend the truth. Boys will feel relieved at first, and then they will feel a little lost. In the end, they didn't get married right away, but for this girl, she has got the answer she wants.
I know a sister who just fell in love recently. Every time I see her, I always see a smile on her face. She told me the story of her and her predecessor before, and the plot was very old-fashioned. The boyfriend promised his sister to get married in five years. He said that as a man, you have to have your own career to make your woman live a good life. Then my sister really believed me, and they talked like that for five years.
My sister went to other provinces for her boyfriend, accompanied her boyfriend to start a business, and even started a business with her sister. At that time, she had been looking forward to spending the most difficult five years with her boyfriend, and then she could wait until her boyfriend fulfilled his promise to herself. Unexpectedly, in the end, it was the fact that the boy fell in love with another girl, so she was cheated and broke up. Imagine that you are a girl who just graduated from college and should be around 24 years old now. If a boy asked you to wait for him for five years, saying that he did it for your future and promised to get married five years later, would you agree? I believe many girls will be as willing to wait for him for five years as their sisters.
But I want to ask you, don't be silly. The reason why the boy says this is because he hasn't had enough fun himself and doesn't want to get caught up in marriage prematurely. 24 years old, you will be 30 years old in five years. Even if you are really married at this time and you want to have children, you will be an older woman by then. If you choose to wait for him, you are betting on an uncertain future with your own safety. Besides, there are too many temptations in this world, and no boy can guarantee that he will not change his mind. At the age of 30, you may be old and yellow in his eyes. Even if you maintain it well, he is already tired of it.
There is an old saying that "men have 31 flowers and women have 30 tofu dregs". The 30-year-old boy is in his prime and his career has improved to some extent. Now little girls are dressed like fairies. Are you sure you can hit one, two, three? Never trust a boy who promised you that "as long as you wait for me for many years, we will get married". As a girl, you really don't have that much time to wait. The most important thing is to find someone who really loves you and is willing to wait for you to nod and enjoy the happiness you deserve.
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