It depends on the family. Some families need a bride price. But some families don't like it. You should consult with the girl's family. Anyway, 1 20,000 will still be given. But really, 70,000 or 80,000 is still a bit much. I'm from the countryside, and I didn't see the 70 thousand or 80 thousand that one wanted. Usually it's 30 thousand or 40 thousand, not much If you want it, you will return it. It is usually given to girls' parents at home. The girl's parents will give it to their daughter.