My wife and I have been in love for a year and have been married for almost a year. I usually live in harmony and beauty. Although I work in a different place and can only return for three days a month, it doesn't affect our emotional exchange. We describe marriage as love and envy others.

During this period, we had two big fights (from a distance), which made me very depressed. I poured out my bitter water and sought the analysis and comfort of the great god.

The first quarrel was my new wife's euphemistic telling me that she wanted my mother to move out. Under my questioning, she gave several reasons: 1, the mother-in-law was difficult to get along with and didn't want to get stiff in the future; 2. Say that mom has a family and can take care of grandma; I said that I vaguely promised to live separately before marriage.

I'm depressed when I hear it. As a dutiful son, it is really hard for me to accept that my virtuous and kind wife has made such excessive demands so soon. I sorted out the clues and explained and refuted her reasons one by one: 1, you haven't officially contacted your mother-in-law's life, so you should avoid giving up without trying at all. What is the truth? Do you take it to heart that others have blown unhealthy trends with you? Grandma's house belongs to my uncle. After my mother lives in the past, what will my mother do if her grandmother gets old (she invested in a suite in the suburbs, which is too remote to have a car to live in)? Do I have to look at my wife's face when I move back? My mother once said that my wife and I are too sticky. She kind of wanted to live with my grandmother, so I vaguely promised my wife. Now for the last reason, I can't bear to let her move out. I broke my word. That's what happens when I coax you before marriage. I also added: I build a house and travel all over the country all the year round, so that my mother can live at home, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can have a companion, and housework can be shared. It is also good to help with the children in the future. Well, such a long speech didn't make my wife understand and support me. She just kept chasing my promise-please, it's obvious that I broke my promise to my wife or was I unfilial.

I think, do women fantasize that they are loved like love? What kind of man will be obedient and virtuous in the new century? Everything must be decided by the wife's wishes. Once it is violated, he just doesn't love her performance, and will cry, make trouble and hang himself?