The wine table is an essential eloquence routine for eating. As a way of communication, wine plays an important role on many occasions. People often say that wine is a character, and the etiquette talk on the wine table has gradually become a way for leaders to observe their subordinates. If you master the meaning, you can quickly win people's hearts and share the necessary eloquence routines on the wine table and dinner.
Eloquence of wine table dinner 1 1. Address+thanks+blessings
Entertainment on the wine table is different from other entertainment. In the wine shop, all performances must be performed through actions and mouths, so it is best to look from all directions and listen from all directions.
Wine bureau is an occasion to test a person's IQ and EQ. If you mix well in the wine market, it is not difficult to get a promotion and salary increase; If you don't pay attention to etiquette in a restaurant, you may ruin your future if you are not careful.
When you need to make a speech or toast to some important people in the bar, be careful not to be nervous and don't hesitate. You can use the following formula: company address+thank someone+review the past+wish the future.
For example, if this person is your respected elder, you can say, "Uncle Wang, here's to you. Thank you very much for taking time out of your busy schedule to have dinner with me. I wish you a rich family. ! "
Second, call for the blessing of memory.
If this object is your workplace leader, you should say thank you, raise your glass, recall the past together, talk about that deep feeling and try to look forward to a bright future. This can not only adjust the atmosphere of the wine bureau well, but also deepen our friendship, killing two birds with one stone.
If you want to behave properly and get full benefits in workplace socialization, you must always recognize your position in the table wine bureau.
Eloquence of wine table and dinner table 2 1,
When you mistake the driver for a guest toasting him, you should say, "The driver is the hardest, responsible for the direction and route. I should bring you a cup of tea today and wish you a safe life. "
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When guests spill wine, in order to save face and refill glasses, you should say, "It is a blessing to pour wine and spill it all over the world. It is full of flowers and wealth. "
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When the host and the guest touch a glass of wine, and then continue the second glass, and the guest doesn't drink it, you should say, "Every friend has a thousand glasses of wine, and there is nothing to say."
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The host pours wine for the guest, and the guest doesn't finish it. You should say, "As long as the relationship is good, it's not a matter of how much wine."
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When you invite a businessman to drink, you should say, "The market economy is not easy. Let's have a drink. At sunrise, flowers on the riverside are better than fire, and I wish you more prosperous business. "
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When the host and guests touch glasses many times, and the wine in the cup is inadvertently stained with a lot of wine, you can miss the opportunity to say, "I would rather have a hole in my stomach than leave a gap in my feelings."
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When your toasting guests don't drink or don't drink, you should say, "At this time, enough wine is enough. Why don't we change the wine to tea? "
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When toasting the leader, we must pay attention to the fact that the glass cannot be higher than the leader. At this time, you should say, "The leader is above me. You can say something."
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When the woman around you is forced to drink, you should say, "When you are in danger, you should reach out and get her a drink."
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When congratulating others on their promotion, you should say, "Today is a good day, and all your wishes can come true. I wish you every year today, every year today, the cause of by going up one flight of stairs, always get what you want. "
The dinner on the wine table is not only a chat, but also a communication in language and art, and it is also a social occasion to enliven the atmosphere and increase mutual understanding. Politeness is not learning and memory, but an accumulation and an experience.
Polite language should put leaders first, guests first and guests first, and the length is greatly appropriate. How to say it depends on your reaction, adaptability to the scene and language organization.
No matter what occasion or status, we should keep in mind three principles.
Principle 1: Use words sincerely, and avoid exaggeration and glib tone.
Principle 2: the language should be concise and avoid long speeches.
Principle 3: embellishment needs to be refined, and it is forbidden to quote classics.
Wine table culture is a high knowledge, so wine table language must be appropriate, publicized and always stable, in order to reflect high emotional intelligence and achieve the desired results.
Eloquence Routines of Wine Table Dinner 3 1, facing strangers.
If we meet for the first time on the wine table, we don't know each other and there is no middleman to introduce us, but there will be some exchanges in the future. At this time, you might as well take the initiative and say hello to each other.
For example, "Hello, I've heard about you from Mr. Li before. I've heard a lot about you, and I finally met you today. " If the other person is polite, he will definitely respond. At this time, he can quickly open the situation, get more information through conversation, quickly take the initiative and control the situation.
Don't interrupt others when they are talking.
At work, there are always some people who have a strong desire to express themselves, especially after three glasses of wine, and instantly get through the second pulse of Ren Du, trying to get involved in any topic and express their views. In fact, this is very impolite behavior, especially when eating, which will only be disgusted by others.
When eating, when others speak, you must listen to others' opinions patiently and nod your head from time to time to express your affirmation, which will make the expresser feel respected. Even if you have different opinions, you should explain them after the other party has expressed them, not interrupt them.
3. Say some humorous words appropriately to enliven the atmosphere.
On the wine table, some appropriate words can not only ease the atmosphere, but also show a person's cultivation and quality, which makes people feel happy. When the atmosphere at the wine table is deadlocked, we can find a topic with similar interests and intervene in each other's relationship according to everyone's preferences. Try to talk less about work-related things and try to talk about some relaxing and interesting topics.
4. Appropriate compliments are more likely to bring us closer.
If you don't know what to talk about at dinner, you are afraid of offending people by saying the wrong thing, and you don't know what the other person is interested in, it's not wrong to say a compliment.
Simply put, you can praise her dress taste and makeup, and others can be praised according to observation, such as cars, girlfriends and alcohol consumption. Everyone likes to be praised, and proper praise is easier to bring them closer.
02 table manners 3 points note:
1, ordering skills
Understand the customer's identity and taste preferences, arrange suitable dishes, and ask the guests which foods can avoid allergies before attending the wine shop. When ordering, be sure to mix meat and vegetables. The number of main courses is 2-3 more than the number of people present, first cold and then hot, then soup, dessert and fruit plate.
2, pouring skills
When toasting the leader on the wine table, first observe whether there is wine in the other person's glass. If there is no wine, pour it to the leader in time. White wine is not easy to be too full, just pour it to two-thirds of the glass, and red wine is generally poured to one-half or one-third.
3. Toast skills
When toasting, you need to pay attention to the order. You should start with the most distinguished person, and then make a toast by analogy. When toasting others, be careful that the glass must be lower than the person you respect. If the distance is far, you can go to the other side to propose a toast. If the occasion does not allow, you can touch the glass at the bottom of the table to signal a toast.
But you must follow the other person first, and the other person can only follow after touching it.
In addition, pay attention to the occasion when toasting, and don't interrupt others' conversation easily. When someone gives you a toast, you need to express whether you can drink it. If you can't drink too much, you can explain the situation.