After Fu Lin acceded to the throne, in order to facilitate his study, he "chose the Manchu Ci minister to fill the seats for the official to speak, and built a value room in Jingyunmen, so that the Hanlin official stayed straight as a consultant, and Shi Ce was not allowed to release the scriptures", so that he was too tired to study and "coughed up blood". Every time Fu Lin went to the Empress Dowager Cixi's palace to meet her, she always "knelt down to be taught". One is to exercise, and the other is to tell him not to be too tired in reading. Under the guidance of her grandmother, Michelle Ye "studied since childhood, liked reading, loved calligraphy and attached importance to classics", even overworked, with blood in his sputum, and never dropped out of school. Sourdrang queen asked her clever maid Sue malagu to help her study Mongolian. Michelle Ye was able to master Mongolian fluently at an early age.
Thanks to sourdrang queen's meticulous communication and constant guidance, Fu Lin and Michelle Ye laid a solid foundation for their later handling of state affairs.
In Fu Lin Michelle Ye's life, sourdrang queen played the most important role, and sourdrang queen understood his position. In her childhood, Fu Lin Michelle Ye taught her how to evaluate the situation and guide her according to the situation. Communicate with them patiently, even young emperors need dignity. In communication with them, sourdrang queen always lets them make their own choices.
Empress Xiaozhuang Wen has a detailed insight into the life details of her children and grandchildren, every move, every word and deed. Support and encourage their progress and achievements; Educate and discourage their shortcomings and faults, but not force them, but persuade them with good words. Choose for yourself. For example, Michelle Ye got into the bad habit of smoking when he was a child. After sourdrang queen found out, he educated Michelle Ye in time and explained to him that smoking is not only harmful to health, but also very easy to cause fire, which does more harm than good. Discouraged by her grandmother, Michelle Ye resolutely gave up smoking. After Michelle Ye ascended the throne, he always persuaded ministers to give up smoking. It was under the influence of sourdrang queen that Michelle Ye disliked drinking since he was a child. He knows the harm of alcoholism, so he usually asks himself to "drink without drinking". Even on festivals and major festivals, I only drink a small glass.
? Communication is an art, and only those who are good at communication can teach excellent people.
Sourdrang dowager is a highly effective empress dowager, and sourdrang dowager is a loving mentor and friend at home. In Michelle Ye's teaching, it can be said that we do our best. Communicate with them in the most intimate way and teach them slowly.
Since ancient times, it has been said that "it is difficult for a monarch to go to the top", and all the people are born. The son of heaven was born in Sri Lanka and grew up in Sri Lanka, all of which attracted attention. We must think deeply about how many people can conquer the country, so that there will be no end to Xian Yi and Wan Li. You are generous and kind, gentle and courteous, cautious and dignified, sincere in your words, and you only inherit the inheritance of your ancestors day and night, so that you can give it without guilt. Sourdrang queen wrote these words on paper and read them to Michelle Ye to strengthen his memory. Influenced by sourdrang queen's education, Michelle Ye realized the importance of the emperor to governing the country, so he asked Confucian scholars to translate The Meaning of the University. This book is for the queen Xiaozhuang to read. Sourdrang queen was very happy, and further guided by the situation, saying: It is very important for people to live above all the scholars in the world. However, the production of natural things is ultimately in practice; To cure Xinghua, we must cultivate ourselves first. This calligraphy discipline is complete and sincere. Ertega means editing and ordering the Confucian scholar minister to translate and print, so that he can enjoy the pleasure of being awarded to the minister. Yes, it is specially given to the internal vault 1200 platinum, which can be given to the responsible official immediately.
? Kindness is a position and a way of communication. The more harmonious communication with others, the more obvious the effect.