I don't know whether readers like what I wrote, whether it can enter your eyes or not. Anyway, I wrote this, and you are happy, that's all. Of course, in the process of writing what you read, I also hope you can give me some advice, or just tell me what you think of my article. Let's be friends.
I think someone on the Internet has calculated our life span, starting with the average life span of these big cities. If we live more than 82 years, our life is only 30,000 days. For example, the Hong Kong supporting actor uncle who just died has several versions of his age. Some people say he is 68 years old, others say he is 195 1 years old, just 70 years old. His death, the memory of several generations, brought us a lot of sadness.
When people get older, they feel that days pass quickly. I don't know if God put the clock forward, but they always feel that time passes very quickly. How much time is left to make you worry and how much time is left to make you smile. Grandpa got liver cancer, less than two months from discovery to death. The body is your own, and no one pays for your health; Happiness is your own, and no one has an umbrella for your sadness.
I used to hear old people say that people who are confused in life are easy to be happy; People who live a sober life are easily troubled. At that time, when I was young, I didn't think so after hearing this. I wanted to make things clear, make it clear, make people obedient, and untie the knot on the hemp rope. Looking back now, I feel so silly and naive, and finally realize that this sentence is really reasonable: in this matter of life, the simpler the better, the more confused the better.
Some people say that it is difficult to be confused just because cause and effect are not empty, and the highest state of life is that it is difficult to be confused. It's hard to get confused when doing things. Don't explain yourself clearly, and don't ask others. If you really want to know, find a way to get others to take the initiative.
More than once, I heard many older brothers and sisters say, brother, I feel really stupid when I get off the stage. I work so hard, my standards are so high, my card is so strict, my investigation is so tight, and I have offended so many people ... In a word: it's really not worth it! Of course, I'm not saying this here to persuade anyone not to have principles, not to be unruly, and to muddle along. If so, let alone when will society progress and realize our lofty ideals and ambitions? I just say this to remind everyone to have a peaceful mind when doing things. Clear water makes no fish, while people look at it without friends. Sometimes it's really important to play dumb.
Especially working in the system, we all know that management is becoming more and more standardized and scientific, and the work pressure is getting bigger and bigger. That's quite right. It is related to the great cause of the future, to the success or failure of the rise and fall, and to the centennial goal. We must be serious and work hard where we should be serious, and we must never be a good person and muddle along. But some things need to be confused, and some things need to keep a clear head. A really smart person will play dumb at the right time, will not ask what he shouldn't ask, and won't pass it on. It can be said that it is the highest-level work within the system, especially things that involve everyone's vital interests. More importantly, we should know how to turn a blind eye, leave more ways for others and leave a way out for ourselves. As the old saying goes, people should leave a line before we can meet again. This sentence means to leave some feelings for work so that we can get back together in the future. Don't be cruel to others.
Only by playing dumb can we maintain a harmonious working atmosphere. A really smart boss often likes to pretend. "Pretending" is not pretending to understand, not putting on airs, but converging, learning to observe and think calmly, and finding the best way to work from countless interpersonal relationships and work procedures. This is a rare confused state of mind.
The idea of "rare confusion" originated from Taoism. Zheng Banqiao believed in Taoism in his early years, hence the name "Banqiao Taoist". One year, Zheng Banqiao went to Yunfeng Mountain in Laizhou to see Gong Zheng's memorial tablet, and stayed at an old man's house at the foot of the mountain for one night. The old man claimed to be an "abandoned savage". When Zheng Banqiao talked with him, he knew that he was a university scholar and lived in seclusion here. Zheng was very emotional, so he wrote the words "confused", and then wrote a paragraph: "Smart is difficult, confused is difficult, and it is even more difficult to change from smart to confused. Let go, take a step back, and feel at ease now, not to get a return later. " It's hard to be confused when you're alive. The so-called confusion is not a brain, but a superficial confusion and a clear heart. Forget it, put it down and look forward, so as to get rid of trivial disputes. Confused people bury their wisdom in their hearts. Facing the complicated world, their life and work are simple, they are unhurried and not annoyed when they are in trouble, and they brew the mellow wine of life with a rare muddle.
Again, life is like this, life is like this, you smile at me, I smile at you, that's good. Too many things are not at ease, so I just laugh it off in confusion. Three glasses of wine in the world of mortals and a pot of tea in the Millennium. Well, you can play without money.