According to the old habit of marriage in the host country, after the marriage between men and women is settled, the man asks the fortune teller to set a good day for marriage, and the matchmaker tells the woman this post with colorful posts. This post should be written by a talented person with beautiful handwriting. The gift certificate says that they will meet on a certain day in a certain year. After receiving the man's prophecy, he began to get married in tears.
The cry of Donghai girl is a folk song. Compared with ordinary folk songs, the biggest feature is crying, crying, crying in songs, with a low tone and crying like complaining. The content of crying broke out at will, which was very rich. Some lamented their tragic fate, some accused unreasonable feudal marriage system, some accused middlemen, some parents arranged marriages, some thanked their parents for their kindness, some left their brothers, sisters and aunts, and so on.
In traditional wedding customs, this kind of crying usually begins at night, and if time permits, it usually begins one month before marriage. In addition to the married girl crying, the better sisters in the village also gathered at the married woman's house to cry together. Those who cry are crying about the affection between sisters, and some people are moved by the scene and recite the longing for the future marriage.
After overthrowing the feudal system and realizing the freedom of marriage for young men and women, the custom of crying like a host before marriage gradually disappeared. Now all the people who want to marry Donghai are old people. Not only do young people in the host country not have to cry to get married, but many traditional wedding customs have also decreased. Especially in recent years, with the rapid development of the East Island economy, it has become a reality that rural people generally realize the modernization of weddings. Some people simply don't attend the wedding, get a marriage certificate and go out with their marriage reserves. This is the latest popular travel marriage.
In the rural areas of southwest Shandong, girls get married by car, carriage, sedan chair, "cotton trousers hot pot" prepared by their husband's family, and some wear dresses, but no matter what clothes they wear, the general customs and habits are the noodles and money strings that women are prepared to bring.
The bride was dressed neatly and waited in the room for the groom's call. The groom calls for a red envelope. Usually the first time you call, you can't open the door. No matter the size of the red envelope, you must open the door at least twice before you can open it. In order to show women's caution and gold, we must seize it. The groom asked him to open the door, so the bride had to put on her father's shoes backwards. The father held it to the groom, who held the bride in the sedan chair. No matter how happy the bride is, she will shed a few tears. One is to leave golden beans for parents, and the other is to express their love for their hometown.
After the bride got on the bus, there were also boys holding chickens. They have to get on the bus with the bride on their backs. On the way to my husband's house, I met a well and a stone mill, and I let out evil spirits, and posted dragons and white tigers at the intersection.