Moreover, it is a long-standing custom to give bride price when getting married, and it is impossible to disappear for a while. But the wind of comparison can't be imitated, and the last one who suffers is himself. China has been married since ancient times, and it is a custom for the man to give the bride price and dowry to the woman when the marriage agreement is initially reached. This kind of bride price and dowry is commonly known as "bride price". This was originally a lucky draw to make the wedding more festive. But now there is always news of "high price bride price" from time to time.
In addition, I think there are two main reasons for the "sky-high bride price": the first is the imbalance between men and women in today's society. Some people offer some "sky-high bride price", which will make me feel that I am not worried about getting married. If you can't get the money, someone else will, so there is no fear. The second is the psychology of comparison. In rural areas, the situation of comparing with each other is still serious. If your family buys a car, even if I can't drive it, my family will buy one and put it there. Or I'll give you a comparison. There are quite a few such situations, not to mention such a big event as marrying a daughter. The bride price of the daughter next door is 65,438+10,000 yuan, and my family can't marry less daughters than him. This mentality of comparing with each other is invisible.
Finally, in fact, I think it doesn't matter how much the bride price is as long as two people really love each other. If the man's family is ordinary and goes out to borrow money or even borrow money for the "sky-high bride price", then the woman will help pay back the money together when she gets married. In that case, why not choose a relaxing day for a long time, and then she will gradually be filial to her parents. The bride price should still be based on the family situation, so it is good to be polite.