In some film and television works involving the married private life of Gege in the Qing Dynasty, those young and beautiful Gege and their husbands and wives, that is, their foreheads, mostly live an enviable life of being very much in love, loving each other, hugging each other and being extremely romantic. However, this is not the case. The once naive Gege people in Qing Dynasty got married and entered a lonely life after their wedding night. The daughter of the Qing emperor is not called princess, but Gege. For example, Nuerhachi's eldest daughter, Qing Taizu, is called Dongguo Gege, and his second daughter is called Nenzhegege. After the Qing Emperor Taizong succeeded to the throne, in the first year of Chongde, that is, 1636, the emperor's daughter began to call the princess, and it was stipulated that the daughter born to the queen was called Princess Gulun, and the daughters born to other concubines were called Princess Heshuo. But at that time, most people still called them Gege. In the Qing Dynasty, the elder brother's position was different from that of the prince, which was a reflection of the patriarchal ideology in traditional society, and the royal family was no exception. It turned out that after Gege was born in the Qing Dynasty, she was generally brought up by a wet nurse and rarely saw her biological mother. From birth to marriage, mother and daughter rarely meet each other. What's more, whenever Gege got married, the emperor gave her a special mansion, and Xu could only live outside the mansion. If you don't want to get lucky, Xu Can shouldn't go into the house and sleep with the princess. But Gege needs a lot of trouble to summon a lucky Xu, and she has to bribe the housekeeper and nurses to get her wish. If Gege doesn't bribe the wet nurse, even if Gege makes a phone call, the wet nurse will find an excuse to stop it in many ways and even blame the ridicule. As a young woman in feudal society, Gege was weak and shy, and dared to fight for it, so she had to be at the mercy of her wet nurse. Even if they went to visit their mother in the palace, that is, their imperial mother, Gege was ashamed to say so. Because I can't reunite with Xu for a long time, not only the chances of having children are few, but many Gege also died young because of long-term illness. The tenth daughter of Emperor Kangxi, Princess Heshuo Xichun, also known as the Tenth Princess, married Bolzigi, Mongolia at the age of 22. Ling Ze is the 20th grandson of Hans in Chenggu, Yuan Taizu. In the 30th year of Kangxi, namely 1692, his grandfather Lu Dan brought Tamir, where he lived, to the Qing Dynasty. Emperor Kangxi was very happy and gave him a Qingqi surname to stay in the capital and study in the palace. Later, he married Princess Heshuo Xichun and gave her a forehead. However, Princess Heshuo seldom stays with Xu and rarely sleeps and makes love with him in Wushan. Princess Heshuo was so eager to stay in bed that she died after only four years of marriage at the age of 26. Let's talk about the ten big princess of Emperor Qianlong, namely Princess Gulen and Princess Xiao. His mother, the maharaja, was dismissed as a concubine by Emperor Qianlong for beating the maids at will, and naturally lost the right to adopt a daughter, so the Tenth Princess was sent to other palaces for raising. In the forty-five years of Qianlong, that is, in May of 1780, Emperor Qianlong distributed ten five-year-old princesses to Feng?enyende, the son of Xiao Shenyang. At the end of nine years later, 14-year-old Tenth Princess married Feng?enyende. Their marriage is undoubtedly a political marriage. In ancient China, many political marriages ended in failure because there was no love between them. However, the Tenth Princess and Feng?enyende are undoubtedly a lucky couple. Although their combination is a political transaction, in Xiao Shenyang's view, it is the most powerful condition to consolidate the love of Emperor Qianlong for himself. Ten princesses and Feng?enyende are a perfect match. The man is handsome and the woman is beautiful and generous. In the next few decades, the two helped each other and supported each other, and * * * passed through one difficulty after another. In fact, the two of them also have many disharmonies. Feng?enyende is serious and unsmiling, while the tenth princess is an outgoing and capable woman. When two people get along, there are often scenes where the princess is alone and Yin De says nothing. Of course, the married life of the ten princesses beloved by Emperor Qianlong could not escape the shadow of wet nurse's interference. During the day, they are very much in love, but at night, they have to live alone and feel lonely. If two people sleep for one night, it is even more precious. They only had one son after marriage, but it didn't last long. I don't know what the reason is, the youngest son suddenly died young, which made the Tenth Princess and Feng?enyende heartbroken. Since then, the tenth princess has never given birth to a child. In order to continue the incense, Feng?enyende actually had several concubines. After his father, Xiao Shenyang, was executed by Emperor Jiaqing, Feng?enyende even drank too much and was almost a womanizer, which undoubtedly made the feelings of the Tenth Princess worse. After Feng?enyende's death, Emperor Jiaqing could do nothing about his sister's miserable situation, and the princesses of Ming and Qing dynasties could not remarry. He can only often send money and things to his sister to help her financially. Gulen and Princess Xiao were born in a famous family, and were born in the same year. They died in Daoguang for three years, that is, on September 10th, A.D. 1823, at the age of 49. Daoguang Emperor was saddened by his aunt's life experience and went to her grave to pay homage. According to relevant historical records, during the 200 years from the early years of Qing Dynasty to Daoguang, the fate of hundreds of Gege was roughly the same. Only Da Gege and Fu Zhen of Daoguang broke through the barrier of wet nurses and gained the right of free reunion and casual sex. When big princess just got married, she summoned her mother-in-law Fu Zhen to live in the palace together, but was stopped by the wet nurse, so that she could not meet Xu for more than a year. Big space space had to keep silent. One day, Dagege went into the palace to meet Emperor Ama Daoguang, and knelt before his father with tears and said, Who married his minister and daughter? Daoguang asked in surprise, isn't Fu Zhen your husband? Big space space said, how about Fu Zhen? I have been married to him for a year and have never met him. Daoguang asked: Why can't we meet? Dagege replied that the nurse would not let the minister and daughter see Fu Zhen. Daoguang said angrily, how dare you? How can a nurse be in charge of your husband and wife? You can make your own decisions! Dagege got his father's imperial edict and returned to the mansion. He was about to reprimand the wet nurse, so he called Xu Fuzhen at any time. In the future, the husband and wife will love each other and have eight children.