It's not fickle, but too many uncertain factors lead to uncertain results. Roommate A said: You must come when I get married. You should earn more money after graduation and give me a big red envelope. I laughed without a word, and the other roommates had nothing to say. Roommate A is the only one in our dormitory. She has been dating for five years, so she thought about it for a long time. But my other two roommates and I have always been alone, and we have never even talked about getting married. Besides, I'm not sure whether we are as close as we are now after I get married. So I was silent, and probably the other two roommates felt the same way. To tell the truth, there is no pure love in college, so it is really not easy to have that kind of pure love in society. I may still be alone after working for a few years, and I have to accept the blind date arrangement at home. Really, this is not what I want. What I want is to find someone who likes me and him, not a stranger for life.
After graduation this year, roommate A should be married soon after graduation. Seriously, maybe our relationship was ok then, but I'm not sure whether my wallet will be good or not. I decided to give myself four years to fight, limited to four years. If I can fight in four years, I will go forward bravely. Or I'll give myself another four years.
I still can't guarantee that I will appear at my roommate's wedding, but I will silently bless him.