1, if you are hesitant, don't step into marriage easily.
In the face of love and marriage, girls must be sober, know what they want and what they don't want, and dare to refuse what they don't want, instead of obedience without a bottom line. Otherwise, you will suffer.
Love is a feeling, so is happiness. You will feel happy and cheerful with this person.
Your heart becomes soft when you think of him. You know why you choose each other. You agree with each other's strengths. From the beginning, you decided that he would be the one to spend the rest of your life with.
Choose the person you want to marry, even if one day life becomes dull, you won't regret your original choice.
No matter how old you are, you can't treat marriage casually. Marriage is not playing cards, shuffling cards will pay a huge price.
If your parents don't let you get married, don't get married.
Parents must listen to them. My parents eat more salt than we do. In this world, only parents will always consider you unconditionally and listen to their opinions.
3, it is very important to be suitable for each other.
Marriage is a matter for two families. Don't try to get married. Their parents' lifestyle is the epitome of your future. Get along with the man's parents and communicate more before marriage. Their parents will play an important role in your future life.
4. Maintain the economy
independence
Whether you are married or not, you must remain financially independent. No one will believe that I raised you. This sentence is true only when I say it, and other times it is when my finger points at you. Most people in this society are housewives, and few are housewives.
Maintaining economic independence is also your confidence in your future husband's family, and your wallet will make your waist stiff. No matter how much the other person loves you and is willing to spend money for you, there is no harm in having enough money for yourself, and economic freedom will not be looked down upon by your family.
Be careful when marrying far away, or you will lose miserably in the future.
If you can, please don't marry far away. Don't think that the traffic is so convenient now, you can go back with a plane ticket or a high-speed rail. You can ask the girls around you, is it really that easy to go back?
6. Stay away from Phoenix Man and Mambo Man as soon as possible.
Do not marry, do not marry, do not marry, do not marry.
If you are bullied in the future, neither of them will support you, and remember, girls, what we need is not someone who judges for us, but someone who is partial to us. Obviously, neither of these people can do it.
7. Break up your boyfriend immediately.
Don't say you touched me, even if you find a clue, please break up at once.
There is only one domestic violence, countless times.
Stay away from domestic violence and cherish life.
8, don't get married naked, the economic foundation determines the quality of marriage.
Before marriage, it was an affair, after marriage, it was rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. Poor couples are always sad. Without economic strength, they have no time to think about the future. A penny beats a hero.
9. Don't get pregnant before marriage and prepare to have children.
Although the society is open now, pregnancy before marriage is still not glamorous. It's okay to meet an enlightened mother-in-law. What if it's a bad mother-in-law It is oneself who will suffer in the future.
Giving birth to a child is not an easy task. From the moment you decide to have children, you have a heavy burden on your shoulders. You need to be strong enough and responsible enough to be responsible for a small life.