Your mother-in-law may be thinking, she wants to give you a set, together is a heart;

What you think is that your mother-in-law should give you a set for nothing, not something bad.

So it's hard to say whose problem it is, just different understanding. If you feel really angry, discuss it with your husband; But I think it's good to muddle along. After all, they are not together for such a set of things. If it's a big deal, let your husband make it up.

If you say it through your husband, you can, but you'd better not say it. Disputes caused by different understandings are the most insoluble, and your relationship with your in-laws may not be good in the future.

I remember it because of different understandings, not because it is worth it or because the old people are indifferent.