If it is in the countryside, it should be given to the elderly, because relatives and friends used to give gifts to the elderly when they worked at home. Now your married relatives should also give gifts and money to the elderly. If you spend money with the old, you have to give it to the old. Food and accommodation are all included, so it's unreasonable for you to take money. If you want to invest in something, you'd better discuss it with the old people and move the money first. I wish your family happiness, happiness and health. I hope it helps you.