It's really embarrassing for a man. If he attends the wedding, it seems that he will not only eat and drink, but also give the man a red envelope. He doesn't know if there is.

I think an irresponsible father is a burden. When you get married. It's best to keep a respectful distance from others. If he wants money, you give him some money. Send what you can with money. I just can't let him stay at your house to eat and drink in the future. As for your heartlessness, you are heartless. These days, the accounts between brothers are still clear, not to mention a shameless strange father without any affection. Think of him as a poor nursing home without children and girls. Don't put too much emotion into it, take some money and kill it. If you always want it, don't give it.