I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I have quarreled many times. I always feel that there is something wrong with our communication, and he thinks I can't make fun of it. I feel particularly tired talking to him about this problem. I am an unhappy person who will talk to him directly. If there is any misunderstanding, I don't care, but as long as I tell him what I am unhappy about, he will say, think what you like, and I'm too lazy to talk to you. That's who I am. Leave early if you want. Don't waste your good time. . If it hurts people, it will rise from ordinary problems to other problems, but the next day we will basically calm down. He won't go back to the question itself, he will choose silence as if it never happened. The next time I tell him that I am unhappy, he will say that I have a bad temper and have nothing to do, and then the more noisy I am, the more tired I am, and the matter itself has never been solved. I hope he doesn't think that I do this whenever I am unhappy. But next time, it will be the same. We haven't been in touch since we quarreled with him this time. He just said hello before going to bed at night, and I said hello back. I used to feel sorry for this way, but this time I really felt very tired, too tired to communicate, didn't know what to do, and even thought about giving up. We are getting married, the wedding photo hotel is ready, and both parents are very good. I like his parents and my family very much. It's taken care of. We usually get along very comfortably. Every night, we will talk on the phone and say good night to each other, that is, whenever we encounter emotional contradictions, it is easy to rise and make each other particularly tired. We've never quarreled about home decoration, hotel wedding and other major events. However, some trivial things like sesame seeds and mung beans are quarrelling as a bee, and they will say very vicious words. Everyone knows that it is angry words, and it is very tired.