A dream of red mansions is really a dream, a nightmare.

After reading a dream of red mansions, I felt a little sad. Suddenly I felt that what Qin said to Xifeng was really reasonable: "The full moon is a loss, and the water is full." Nothing in the world can be "safe forever". Just like this dynasty, it always goes from the early stage to the peak and then to the decline. Since the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, Qin Shihuang has unified the six countries of Han, Three Kingdoms, Jin, Northern and Southern Dynasties and Sui. The same is true of the little things around us. There are always smooth and dark periods in life, so life gives people a feeling of full flavor ... Some people often feel that life is miserable, but without it, how can they feel the happiness when success comes? If a dude only knows how to have fun until he dies, he will regret it before he dies. "Life is short, and I still have nothing to do." . The decline of my family is not a bad thing. Before I die, I can at least say, "Because I have lived such a lonely life, my life has not been in vain."

Speaking of mediocrity, I'm dead in my life. You have to ask, fame and fortune. I remember the "good song" written by Yin Shi at the first time. "Everyone knows that immortals are good, and fame cannot be forgotten; Where will the past and present be? A pile of grass on the wasteland is missing. Everyone knows that immortals are good, but gold and silver can't forget them; In the end, I only hate getting together, but I close my eyes for a long time. ..... "Very serious, just like being famous. If you don't get fame, you don't have to die. You have to die in the end. In the next life, who cares if you are Qin Shihuang or Han Wudi? Not to mention that others "ask whether ancient and modern leaders can still exist?" Just an empty name and respect from future generations. "You're welcome, respect, from ancient times to the present, those famous corrupt officials and treacherous court officials, Lv Buwei, Qin Gui, Wu Sangui, Ao Bai ... are also historic masterpieces. In fact, their intelligence, courage and courage of not fearing fate also have some merits. Fate arranged for them to be cruel after all. The death brought cheers from heaven and earth, and people were scolded after death. This is their sorrow, and it is also the sorrow of that society. Is this the standard of good and evil?

In fact, the standards of justice and evil are still very vague. I can say, "everyone has their own ideas, so I can only say that they have established an unscientific outlook on life." What they did is not necessarily as shameful as we thought. Maybe they are like Chu Zhuangwang, addicted to debauchery for three years, with ulterior motives. Maybe we just let history blind us. Although the possibility is extremely small, this idea cannot be ruled out. After all, these are all things of the past, and there is no way to verify them. ...

I really appreciate their fearlessness to God and destiny. Even in today's society, who can really be dissatisfied with the arrangement of fate and challenge it? Think about the society, most people still hope that saints and immortals will appear and rescue them from the crisis, which seems to be less than these corrupt officials and treacherous officials.

So what did these corrupt officials and traitors do wrong? Where is the failure? -I think so. I haven't thought long enough. Like Lv Buwei, what if he gets the throne? Maybe I will feel more empty and eventually die. "It's ridiculous. In the end, I was making wedding dresses for other girls! "

So don't do anything, after all, you are still making wedding dresses for others.

Actually, you can't think so. In this life, many things are helpless. Personally, I think a person's life can be summed up in three words: "alive." How can you live without doing anything? Everything comes at a price. You study and find a good job. You work for the money you need to live. Money makes people live well, and you can't live without it. It suddenly occurred to me that some people think that the former is dirty or dirty. Why use it? Even if it is dirty, why do you need to live on it? I don't think money is dirty. Money is only an object, and people who use it are unbearable, so it is shameful. "Fame and fortune" is just a means of exchanging money. In life, as long as you make money, you want to live. Corruption means taking for yourself what others should pay for. There is nothing wrong with living a better life in a proper way. Even if it looks luxurious in the eyes of others, so what? This is bought at a price, earned after paying, and earned bit by bit. This is to make yourself more comfortable, and luxury is voluntary. No problem. So in order to survive, we must make money. If you always want to make wedding clothes for others, then don't live at all. After all, only a few people can enjoy the life who sees through the world of mortals. Since there are many things you can't let go, don't let go and waste your time. "Saints" also need the lining of "mortals".

I have a lot of dissatisfaction with the ending of A Dream of Red Mansions, but someone said to me, "Since you are dissatisfied, Lin Daiyu finally died with regret and Jia Baoyu became a monk, what do you think is the perfect ending?" Indeed, I am very dissatisfied with each other's death. The other party is also a rebellious character, who just wants to show his talents all day, which violates the old saying that "a daughter without talent is a virtue". There is no doubt about each other's talents in the article. I really admire her and her rebellion. But why can't she rebel to the end? Grandmother Jia has always loved her, especially Baoyu. They want to get married, but Jia Mu doesn't necessarily object. Instead of fighting for it, she looked for trouble and was so angry. Come to think of it, she is always suspicious, and even if she marries Baoyu, she will inevitably get angry. It's not like Feng can drown his sorrows in wine. How can she have such a mouth with Jia Mu? Her strength is so meager that she is not as popular as Baochai in Jia's family after all. Baochai is a smooth and likable person. Finally, she couldn't get rid of her parents' instructions and married Baoyu. In the end, she lived alone, which made people feel a little sorry. "Jin Chai was buried in the snow." Except Baoyu, he finally saw through the world of mortals and became a monk. Is becoming a monk really the best ending? If so, the world will become a monk. My idea is too extreme. "If you die, I will become a monk." It indicates all this, as if everything is fixed and cannot be changed. What I am dissatisfied with is that Bao and Dai still can't escape the bondage of fate. The man said to me again, "Baoyu, you didn't become a monk for Daiyu. What can Baoyu do without becoming a monk? Go after fame and gain? " Yes, in terms of fineness, this is the best ending for Baoyu. He has lost his fame and fortune, which means nothing to him. Seek fame and gain, let history repeat itself, and watch your descendants perform this Dream of Red Mansions again? He doesn't seem to be free from the bondage of fate, but fate can no longer bind him. He became a monk not for each other, but for himself. Different from the secular, he is carefree and sees through the world of mortals. The man also said to me: "There are two kinds of monks, one is to escape and the other is to face." What I want to escape is "seeing the world of mortals wrong", but what I face is really "seeing through the world of mortals".

Reflections on the Romance of the Three Kingdoms

After reading a thick book Romance of the Three Kingdoms, I can't help but sigh that history "will be divided for a long time, and it will be divided for a long time." The Romance of the Three Kingdoms really tells a vivid historical story for readers, and also helps me learn some principles of being a man. Let's talk about the inspiration that Cao Cao brought me first. Cao Cao's life is very bold and treacherous. He killed Lv Boshe's family by mistake, and finally knew he was wrong, but he continued to kill Lv Boshe. At this point, Chen Gong left him. What Cao Cao later said is intriguing: "I would rather teach me to be negative to the world than to teach the world to be negative to me." But on the other hand, if he hadn't killed them all, and if Lv Boshe really brought some people to kill him, maybe Cao Cao would have retired from the historical stage. But treachery will only bring temporary petty profits. If you keep being treacherous, you will naturally be rewarded. Later, Dong Cheng and his gang assassinated Cao Cao, but they were defeated. Later, some people assassinated Cao Cao one after another, but all failed because of some accidents, otherwise Cao Aman would not be all-powerful. Cao Cao's revelation to me is that we should not be too cunning. The opposite of Cao Cao is Liu Bei, who puts benevolence and righteousness first and loves the people. Liu Bei's life behavior is contrary to that of treacherous and benevolent Cao Cao. When Liu Bei was in trouble, he fled with his people. Whether he manages a new field or Xuzhou is benevolent and loved by the people. But both Cao Cao and Liu Bei have a characteristic, that is, they attach great importance to talents. Cao Cao lost a Lv Wei. He didn't cry about his Cao family at the memorial service, only Lv Wei. After the death of counselor Guo Jia, he was also very sad. Liu Bei pays more attention to talents. At first, Zhao Yun was not a general of the Liu family, but he valued Zhao Yun very much and kept him several times. Later, he finally returned to Liu's door, which made him escape twice. Xu Shu was kidnapped there by Cao Cao. When seeing off, Liu Bei cried goodbye and even cut down the bamboo forest in front. Later, Xu Shu came back and recommended Zhuge Liang. Liu Bei's three visits to the cottage have become a model of employing people. Therefore, a person's strength is limited, so we should recruit talents, find like-minded people and start a career together. This is the road to success. The negative example is Yuan Shao. It is said that Yuan Shao and Cao Cao had obvious military advantages during World War I, but Yuan Shao didn't pay attention to talents, and many loyal ministers around him didn't know. If he listens to loyal ministers, how can Cao beat him? But he listened to some villains and lost to Cao Cao, who had fewer troops. The Romance of the Three Kingdoms also taught me: be good at listening to good opinions, but advice when most needed is least heeded. Why did Cao Cao and Battle of Red Cliffs lose? I think it's because I didn't listen to good advice. Facing the newcomer Pang Tong, he did not hesitate to believe in his own "serial stratagem". Faced with another courtier's advice, the courtier said rudely, "If the enemy attacks with fire, why not?" The general meaning of Cao Cao's answer is: "At this time, the southeast wind will not blow. If they attack with fire, they will burn down their camp. " This can't be blamed on Cao Cao, who doesn't know the wind and rain like the meteorologist Kong Ming. But since someone made a suggestion, Cao Cao should also be alert, otherwise he would not be defeated. On another occasion, Liu Bei was stationed in a forest 700 miles away from the water. Some courtiers have suggested to him what to do if the enemy attacks with fire. But he didn't accept it, so that it was really burned by Lu Xun for seven hundred miles. Therefore, whether you can listen to others' opinions correctly often determines the ultimate success or failure of things. Some characters in Romance of the Three Kingdoms also inspired me a lot. People who are greedy for money and sex will definitely not have a good result in the end. Dong Zhuo and Lu Bu were used as weapons, not to sow discord among a little girl, The Story Of Diu Sim, so Dong Zhuo was defeated in lust. Cao Cao is also a bit lewd. After Zhang Xiu surrendered, Cao Cao had a good time in the barracks, so he asked Zhang Xiu's wife to play with him. Later, of course, Zhang Xiu was angry. He fought back against Cao Cao. Fortunately, Cao Cao was predestined, otherwise he was also the result of Zhang Xiu. After Cao Cao built the bronze sparrow terrace, he also put Er Qiao of Soochow on the stage, so he asked Kong Ming to use it to motivate Zhou Yu, and made Zhou Yu determined to send troops to fight Cao Cao, who was defeated in Chibi. There are still some people in the three countries who sell their masters for glory and can't get good results. On the contrary, Guan Yu, who was neither greedy nor lustful, won the admiration of millions of readers in Cao Cao and Qian Qian. If it weren't for his little pride and his betrayal of Liu Feng, he wouldn't have died so early. So, I know again that people should not be greedy for money, but should be an upright person. In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, we can also learn a lot, such as studying the laws of history, analyzing the characters' personalities, and analyzing the causes and consequences of things. Mao Zedong once read The Romance of the Three Kingdoms five times, which is probably the reason. Masterpieces can stand repeated reading and scrutiny, and good masterpieces are accompanied by people's life growth.