Boyfriend's father died young. Just him and his mother. I have been with my boyfriend for six years, and the memories of my youth are all about him. We quarreled many times about the bride price. His family conditions are actually not very good. I know all this. I remember one night two years ago, when we were talking about the bride price, I said that maybe our place would cost more than 60 thousand. He said no, maybe only 20 thousand. He said it was not easy for him. I think it's right, so don't go on. I don't want you to work too hard for this, and I don't want my dad and him to feel bad for each other in the future because of this. But I didn't break up.
We fixed a wedding date last year, and I asked him about the bride price. He said he would pay more than 50 thousand. After two weeks, he suddenly told me that there might be no money for marriage and that the bride price might be 20 thousand. I thought he was playing me, so I said why what I said before didn't count. He said that even if I didn't promise 50 thousand before, there might be changes, as long as 20 thousand, that's all I couldn't accept it, so I went to my parents' place. They just made up. Afterwards, my boyfriend intends to test. But I think he just doesn't believe me.
After this, it's the wedding. My father loves face very much. He wants my boyfriend to pay for the party for both of us. Although the money is not much, it may be less than 50 thousand, but it is also a big expense for us now, so the pressure is great. My father and I quarreled at home because of this, and I didn't want to bear his share. My dad said that I quarreled with him every day because of money. He has his mother and his family. They can help him, but their families don't want to help his marriage, but they don't care about his marriage and don't care much about my wife.
Then I told my partner, and my partner said that he and his mother had quarreled, and that my father would have ideas in the future, and he had promised to do it separately for men and women, and now he would do it together.
I admit, this is my dad's face project. My boyfriend later said that he would either help my dad with this, and if he was willing to help us in the future, we would help him, but he didn't. He thinks my dad didn't consider me and him, didn't consider the quality of our married life, and so on.
I think my date is very good. I just want to plan my wedding with peace of mind. I have been watching the wedding. Our wedding was almost1-24,000 donkey kong. Then the epidemic during this period, he said, will be discussed the night before when the epidemic has passed. He said that I spent 20 thousand on wedding photos, and this wedding is estimated to cost so much. Then I won't have to ask someone to take pictures. How do I know that the price they quoted me is the actual price? Where is the value? When I say that there is a lot of pressure, I generally mean that I don't consider his pressure. I feel quite wronged. We got married, and he didn't formally propose. Then I wanted to buy a ring before, and he also said it was unnecessary. His aunt bought Sanjin and hasn't given it to me yet. I didn't insist, but I think I will get married all my life. Everyone cares about different things. Since I gave up the ring, at least I had a ceremonial wedding. He said that I want toys like a child, regardless of the price or how the money comes from. Then there's the 5000 wedding. You can't tie it. You can't tie it without a wedding. So the next day, I found a company that was almost 1 10,000 and wanted to ask him out. Then he came back late at night and was playing with his mobile phone. I told him that he put his cell phone down 1-2 minutes and picked it up again, saying that I was not careful. He doesn't understand where half of the difference is, and he needs me to make a form.
I told him that it was actually the lighting, because looking at the details of the packaging, it was obvious that there was less lighting, and the main stage was decorated with pictures, because the wedding company would not explain the specific materials. Then he asked me to make a list, during which he played with his mobile phone and said, I can't understand why it is so difficult for me to make a list. Because I think, as soon as he came back, he didn't say that he took the time to read these bags carefully, but kept asking me the same question, saying that I didn't express myself seriously and asked me to make a table.
The problem is that we don't think about that more than 10 thousand, and then we quarrel. He said, if we don't make wine, we will invite our main relatives to drink. My dad's friends and business partners don't have to call me to ask if I'm married. I'm really devastated. In fact, I unilaterally think that he may not be ready to marry me, but my parents think that we have been together for a long time and it is almost time to get married. He is under pressure, but he hasn't made up his mind yet. Since he is getting married, he has said it many times in the past 1 years.
Before he bought stock rights, he bought tens of thousands. I didn't persuade him to buy it at that time. I think I'm getting married. I saved money to get married first, but he bought it anyway. We are independent of each other. He always says that I listen to my father, that I can't do anything, and that everything should consider whether my father is happy or not.