Although you are a chef, you can't cook in the back kitchen for your wedding. How can the groom be absent? Who to invite is your freedom. If you don't invite, you won't be invited, but the reason for not inviting is wonderful enough. You don't want him to meet the woman you love. Since this chef knows your wife, he won't be invited, but he still has to go back to work in the future. I advise you not to look up in the future. That's a living person, not something to hide from others. What can he do if he sees it? He can't take it away from you You are a chef, and your wife has good taste. Cook all kinds of dishes for my wife.