First of all, let's talk about the origin of Huimen. In ancient times, because the marriage had just begun, the man didn't know the woman, and the woman didn't know the man, so there was a matchmaker to introduce each other. In ancient times, there were parents' orders and matchmakers' words. The marriage of children was decided by parents, and there was basically no room for choice. Therefore, both men and women did not know each other before marriage, and the woman's family did not know the groom.
But everyone is curious. Why did they go back three days later? The reason for choosing three years later is that there are many rules. It may take a day or two for the south to take the woman around relatives, and it usually takes a day or two for the man to have a banquet at home. So if you go to your mother's house, it will be several days late, and more importantly, the traffic is very inconvenient at that time. In ancient times, even in modern times with convenient transportation, Huimen is still a very traditional custom, and it is an indispensable custom after marriage. The bride's family pays great attention to returning home, and the groom should prepare all kinds of gifts and etiquette to leave a good impression on the bride's family.
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