_ flower, _ flower, is living _ flower, describing the object (oh, now called girlfriend). Take a capital sound and call it "Ti _ Mianxu". In the past, men usually gave cotton wool to women's homes, ranging from five kilograms to ten kilograms, which meant that it was enough. There must be a matchmaker in the middle The matchmaker met behind the scenes, asked about each other's situation, and asked for advice from each other and their parents to understand the engagement custom in Weinan. Northwest engagement customs has these. Please contact me before mentioning "_ Flower". In fact, it is a further investigation of women by men. Because men who carry cotton wool must go to women's homes, carefully observe the situation in their homes and get a glimpse of the whole leopard. Women also have a further grasp of men, according to each other's constant grasp, in case of "cursory inspection."

After the above procedures, we have got to know each other better, and then we chose an auspicious day to hold the wedding. In fact, I know the engagement customs in Weinan and Northwest China. I gave a scientific name called engagement here. In the north of Fubei, it is generally called "Kanwei Town". Speaking of "looking at the house", the wedding event has already been decided, so looking at the house is only a procedural process, in other words, it is a dodge. Looking at the house, first, the woman looks at the man's family economic situation, which is the primary and secondary, and second, the man gives the woman bride price money, which is the key.

But if it is called "looking in the room", it is necessary to "look". Who will watch it? Therefore, women get all kinds of personnel, the key is uncle's house, aunt's house, aunt's house means being with women's parents and even uncles and aunts, and men's families are also indispensable and generally equal. The families of both sides mainly reconsider and check the other side, and women also have the daily task of asking about the family situation of men.

Generally speaking, female family members give men some exquisite gifts, while male relatives and friends must give very special gifts, which are generally based on the larger value of RMB, and it is likely that it has been greatly improved now. The purpose of giving gifts is to get to know each other. Parents of both sides should introduce in detail and get along with each other in the future. It's the original song, and the key is the bride price. Generally speaking, the number of "one gift" is at most "two gifts", "three gifts" and "four gifts", but it is not common. "Three Rites" and "Four Rites" are called strong hearts, and when they are promoted, they become black hearts (hehehe). "A gift" used to be 240 yuan, but now it's 2400 yuan. In addition to the bride price, the man also needs to give the woman certain clothes, usually a set of clothes and trousers, which used to be two and a half pieces of cloth. Knowing the engagement customs in Weinan, there are these engagement customs in the northwest, followed by suits, and now they are probably converted into cash. In this case, you must go through the matchmaker's hand to compensate the gift given by the other matchmaker.