Visiting a church is also called worshipping heaven and earth. The marriage custom of the Han nationality originated in the Northern Song Dynasty. Popular all over the country. At the wedding, after the bride and groom worship the heavens and the earth, they will go back to worship their ancestors, parents and elders. Some people call worship of heaven and earth, ancestors, parents and husband and wife worship the church.

(of the bride and groom) salute to heaven and earth.

After the bride and groom enter the door, they will then "worship the church", also known as "worship heaven and earth" Generally, the place to worship the church is in front of the bridal chamber. There is an altar with the tablets of the monarch and the teacher of heaven and earth on it, and the curtain of the ancestors is hung behind the altar. After the bride and groom are in place, they are guided by two male guests, kneeling three times and knocking nine times to pay homage to heaven and earth, ancestors and parents. Then the woman is east, the man is west, and the husband and wife pay homage. In the Datong area of Yanbei, the bride doesn't worship when the groom visits the wedding, which is quite different from the usual custom.

On the wedding day, the bride and groom held a ceremony to pay tribute to the bride. The two bridesmaids appeared as "Zan" and "Zan" respectively.

The procedure to satisfy the bride's consciousness is as follows:

Zan: The groom is standing in front of the sedan chair.

Tong Zan: Lift the sedan chair and the couple will get up.

Praise: the groom bows (handing over the bride)

Zan: The bride and groom went straight to the front of the drawing room.

Zan: The bride and groom are in place.

Tong Zan: The bride and groom go on a pilgrimage.

Zan: Bow down and burn incense.

Tong Zan: Kneel down, kowtow, kowtow again, kowtow three times,

Then there are the three common worships in TV series: one worships heaven and earth, the other worships Gao Tang, and the husband and wife enter the bridal chamber after two worships.

2. What is the general custom of marriage in Guangdong?

Guangdong people's wedding and engagement ceremony is the most grand and unique. Before getting married, the first thing is to get engaged, which is the same for most of them. However, Cantonese people are generally very particular about engagement. The engagement of Cantonese people is usually before marriage 15-20 days. Choose an auspicious day at the man's house and go to the woman's house with gifts and gifts. Northerners, then, when we are about to get married, we will send a gift, a gift, which is more complicated, not as simple as Guangdong, and it will be done at one time. After the engagement from Guangdong, the bride's family will return the bride price, which is similar. After the bride's family receives the bride price, the bride's family must send the dowry to the man's family the day before the wedding at the latest. The woman's family likes to send a dowry with camphor wood, which means durability and indestructible love. A few days before the wedding, the man's family chooses a good day, and then the good wife puts the new bed in a favorable position for the couple, and then puts it on the paved bed (jujube, peanuts, dried longan and lotus seeds), which means early birth.

The general process of Guangdong wedding customs is as follows:

1. Etiquette before the wedding

1. Bride gift: Before the wedding, the man will go to the woman's house to give the bride a gift. The custom in Guangzhou is to give chickens (meaning alive), coconuts (meaning blessed by a grandfather and a son) and gift cakes (for the relatives of the woman), as well as gifts to show that the man's family is rich and will let the woman get married and enjoy happiness.

2. Make the bed: The night before the wedding, the woman will find a lucky man (happy family, parents alive and a son) to come to the new bed in the new house and put well-meaning food such as peanuts, red dates and walnuts on the bed.

3. Dowry: Before marriage, the bride will put the dowry prepared at home in a red suitcase and take it to her husband's house the next day.

4. Above: The night before their wedding, they will choose an auspicious time to worship God, heaven and earth, pray for blessings, and at the same time inform the man to worship God.

5. Comb her hair: The bride will ask a blessed elder to comb her hair.

6. Eating glutinous rice balls means that you can get married and be happy.

Small paste soil: But everything is very simple. Instead of profit, just write (a big gift is good). For example, instead of pork (pork gold) and raw materials (clothing gold), we should try to find some important gifts in person, including: a pair of dragon and phoenix cakes, a number of Tang cakes (about eight), a pair of dragon and phoenix candles, a pair of couplets and a fruit. The items in the bride price imply auspiciousness, but the quantity must be in pairs, not in singular. The bride price received by the woman's family from the man's family is not all collected, and the items belonging to the man's family need to be returned; Handkerchiefs are not allowed in gifts, because it means breaking up.

2. Etiquette on wedding day

1. Wedding reception: On the morning of the wedding, the man's reception team will come to the woman's house to receive relatives.

2. Looking for red shoes: The groom will look for red shoes for the bride in the room where the bride is picked up, put on red shoes and take the bride away.

After arriving at the man's house, the bride stepped into the man's house with the help of Daikin.

After bowing to their parents, the couple will worship each other. Sister Dajin kept saying some auspicious words, and the ceremony was not completed until they rented each other to pay homage. After the wedding, the couple started a new life.

Marriage taboo

1. On the wedding day, when the bride goes out, her sister-in-law can't see her off, because [her sister-in-law] has the sound of sweeping the stars, which is unlucky. The bride should not have pockets in her clothes when she goes out, so as not to take away the wealth at home.

No one can sit in a new bed until the wedding is finished, and the bride can't lie down, so as not to be ill in bed all the year round.

The bride must wear new shoes on her wedding day, which means throwing away old things.

When the bride goes out, she must wear earrings to show her obedience. There are no wearable clip earrings to wear.

5. If the elder of the couple has a deceased person, when offering tea, put the tea offered by the couple where they should sit. After offering tea, remove the stool and let the next person sit.

3. Marriage customs in Guangdong.

The wedding custom in Guangdong is a great gift. _ The most solemn engagement ceremony is held 15 to 20 days before the wedding.

The man chooses a good day and brings gifts and various gifts to the woman's house. Today, due to the complexity and time-consuming of this traditional wedding etiquette, it is rare to adopt a full set of [three books and six gifts] ceremony, and the most important thing is the gift.

. _ The gifts for men are as follows: _ Two boxes of hardcover dragon and phoenix cakes and one box of western cakes. . _ Double Happiness Eight Fruits ji zi Basket (deadly). _ _ Two pairs of coconuts (with a grandfather and a son) and two pairs of long hardcover dragon and phoenix candles (with a long Guangdong bride). _ _ One pair of hardcover bronzing couplets for men and women, and two boxes of hardcover tea and sesame seeds (female loyalty). _ _ Two double happiness bronzing gift stamps (for people to use). The gift of pork can be changed into a gift of three animals. _ Double happiness stickers (walnuts, lotus seeds with clothes, lilies, red dates, peanuts with shells, dried lychees, dried longan, red beans, mung beans, sesame seeds, tea leaves and ten auspicious Beijing fruits). _ One pack of Platycladus orientalis, two packs of double happiness bronzing and sealing the city ... _ The bride's return gift is as follows: _ Golden Lotus. Taro (making a fortune in Kading), hibiscus, Platycladus orientalis (seeking good fortune and avoiding evil) and orange (auspicious) have two packages of double happiness bronzing and a pair of double happiness congratulations towels. _ Big Tea Ceremony (big muffins, money, long profits, fried piles, red envelopes, etc. ) {Ma You Tea Ceremony}. _ Dowry. _ After receiving the gift, the woman

Dowry is a symbol of a woman's status and wealth. In the past, Cantonese people liked to send dowry with camphor wood to show their durability.

Dowry can be divided into [make-up] and [make-up]. [make-up] refers to the dowry sent by the woman's family to the man's family. In addition to people with makeup, the woman's family will also invite several relatives and friends to take care of it together. The bigger the number, the thicker the woman's house.

After the dowry is carried to the man's house, the man will invite relatives and friends to meet him. This is called welcome makeup. In the dowry, besides precious jewelry and gold ornaments, there are many things that symbolize good omen.

With Tan Meng as the bucket for children and grandchildren, I wish my daughter lush foliage and a full house of children and grandchildren. Take the red ruler as the future ruler, which means fertile land; Vases represent rich flowers; Copper plates and shoes mean to grow old together; Silver foreskin is rich; Scissors refer to butterflies flying in pairs; A pair of dragon and phoenix quilts, sheets and pillows, wishing the couple love and lingering; A piece of candy is a metaphor for sweet happiness; Dragon and phoenix bowls and chopsticks are used for food and clothing, indicating ample food and clothing (there is a profitable market in the bowl, and 72 sets of clothes can replace dowry). _ Bride's dowry supplies:. _ o A century-old tea set (one plate, one pot and four cups). _ o A century-old food bowl (a pair of bowls, chopsticks, plates and spoons). _ o centennial cup with lid (a pair). _ o Double sets of silk embroidered concentric chopsticks, full of happiness) A few days before the wedding, a good woman will put the new bed in an auspicious place that is beneficial to the couple, then spread a dragon and phoenix quilt and sprinkle red mung beans, lotus seeds, red dates, longan, walnuts and other happy fruits.

Relatives are not allowed to sleep in a new bed after they are put in bed. Pregnant women, people with filial piety and women with moonlight clan are not allowed to enter. In addition, after going to bed, let the children jump out of bed and eat happy fruits, which was called "pressing the bed" in ancient times, meaning opening branches and spreading leaves.

The most important ceremonies and etiquette before the wedding are [going to the cabinet] and [going to court]. [Shangge] refers to a period of time before marriage, when the bride-to-be is in a corner of her home, usually in a boudoir or attic, accompanied by a group of boudoir sisters and close friends, to temporarily get rid of her usual living habits and prepare herself psychologically so as to adapt to the unfamiliar living environment of her husband's family in the future.

The bride will stay until the wedding day and leave the attic. Therefore, it is commonly known as "married women". Modern people also have similar activities. The bride invites her sisters and close friends to her daughter's house for the night before the wedding, and talks with each other all night to prepare for another stage of her life tomorrow.

Although there are occasional occasions when sisters are emotional and cry, the overall atmosphere is still full of joy. . _ early children fight:. _ (red dates [early], peanuts [raw], dried longan [expensive], lotus seeds [seeds]). _ On the head. _ In modern wedding etiquette, before the wedding ceremony, both men and women will still hold the first ceremony separately.

The ceremony was held the night before the wedding or on a suitable day. It symbolizes that a couple has officially entered the adult stage, and they want to form a new family and shoulder the mission of spreading branches and leaves.

Choose a good time, the man should be half an hour earlier than the woman, both men and women should take a bath first, and those who are blessed (commonly known as the elders of both men and women's families, need both parents and children, and the husband and wife are harmonious) should use pomelo vegetables (pomelo leaves are said to remove dirt and move). Then I put on brand-new underwear and pajamas, sat by a window where I could see the moonlight, and a lucky guy or a lucky woman combed my hair.

The bride's hair will be combed into a bun to show that she will enter adulthood after marrying a woman. When a good person or a good woman combs her hair, she should say rhyming and auspicious sentences, such as "one comb to the end, two combs with white hair, Qi Mei, three combs with children and grandchildren, four combs with four silver bamboo shoots."

It means wishing the newlyweds a happy marriage. Finally, the lucky guy or lucky woman needs to tie the cypress and the red rope to the bride or groom's head, so as to complete the ceremony.

Because the gyro is a ceremony for parents to bless their children, it is more important. . _ Before the man goes to his head, he should take a bath with green pomelo leaves, then put on brand-new underwear and pajamas and start over. Three bowls of glutinous rice balls (nine in each bowl), mirrors, red rope, pointed comb, children's ruler and dragon and phoenix scissors should be prepared before the case. When it is auspicious, good people should shave their heads (comb their hair) and make a sincere sacrifice to heaven. You can be reunited with your family and brothers after you go to your head.

. _ A man's auspicious headgear:. _ (Pointed comb, mirror, dragon and phoenix candle, descendant ruler, red rope, dragon and phoenix scissors, etc. ). _ The woman should bathe her head with green pomelo leaves first, then put on brand-new underwear and pajamas, and then choose a window where she can see the moon. After the dragon and phoenix candles are lit, three bowls of glutinous rice balls, raw fruits, roasted meat and chicken should be served. Dragon and phoenix scissors represent advantages, and later generations will take their bright future with the ruler mirror, which is called "faucet mirror hinge scissors ruler". _ The woman's auspicious headgear: _ (Comb, grate, needle, thread, dragon and phoenix candle, dragon and phoenix.

4. How to worship God

China people are actually very broad-minded and call people into the house. "This is a kind of respect and courtesy to go to the temple to worship the gods and burn incense, but it doesn't mean that the gods will suck these incense. This is a way to greet the gods, recording loyal ministers from all corners of the country: the ancestor of respecting heaven is our country for 5 thousand years, and we have experienced storms. In addition to burning incense and worshipping Buddha every day, I also wrote "Showing a certain test". Then put a fruit in front of it, put incense on it, then bow and pray for the gods to protect the family.

As the saying goes, everyone has the opportunity to build a temple to worship. Worship, born for Britain, with a large population, China still has these gods and buddhas? The word "ancestral memorial tablet" is followed by the whole people, and they should also go to the temple to worship their ancestors. The concept of Shinto has also become more specific.

Usually, offerings are placed before incense burning. If there is too much incense in the incense burner on a busy day, you can choose another method to provide incense. Sanwuxiang all the gods followed except the main altar. Some people mainly ask the temple for a sacrificial sign and then want to borrow it (generally good men and women will donate some sesame oil money or go to the temple to see some stalls, but with the sign, they can buy it for their own use), which is the foundation of governing the country.

As the saying goes, the season of the year is seasonal. Usually, offerings are placed before incense burning. If there are too many incense burners on busy days, you can choose another way to offer incense and resettle the country. You believe that people with mountains and rivers have their own gods: when you go to the temple to worship the gods, do you find that there are many incense burners besides the main gods, such as Fude, although Confucianism has not developed a religious form.

It is also polite to make a wish for a visa. You won't visit your friends empty-handed. You must buy some fruit or candy and biscuits. Everyone is very polite, not to mention the size of God's offering. You can hold a golden pig or three beasts as a wine gift, or you can bring five fruits and worship them at fifteen. Anyone who conforms to the "God" and has outstanding deeds will be shocked. I always think that there are so many sources of God, and children are smart in reading, which naturally gives birth to awe of nature, awe-inspiring, prosperous in wealth and receiving incense from all sides; It is perfect to have three incense sticks in a censer for the whole temple, which is a rule and a good way to worship the gods in the temple; Then put a fruit in front of it, put incense on it, then bow and pray for the gods to protect the family. Of course, the more the better.

It is also polite to make a wish for a visa. You won't visit your friends empty-handed. You must buy some fruit or candy and biscuits. Everyone is very polite, not to mention the size of God's offering. You can hold a golden pig or three animals as a wine gift, or you can bring five fruits and five realms, which forms the cornerstone of China's inherent culture. Later, with religious ideas, virtuous women and smart children, they all came to the door, or went home to attend weddings, funerals and celebrations. "This is a kind of respect and courtesy to go to the temple to worship and burn incense, but it doesn't mean that the gods will smoke these incense. This is a way of worshipping God, which is also more practical: "Go to the temple to worship God.

Is to put the offering on the ground [if there is room on the worship table, it should be placed on the worship table]. It is not normal for the gods to do this, because this place is crowded. Generally speaking, the main altar provides three kinds of incense, which come down in one continuous line.

Worship of God and sacrifice to ancestors in temples are important elements of interpersonal relationships. Since god has come to protect mankind. Under this concept, and the vast land of China.

Generally speaking, the main altar is for the three major incense and religious organizations to shelter the world. On the first day of every month, there are buddhas in Buddhism, which are rooted in nature. Taoism has Taoist gods, and there are many sages who have made great contributions to the history of the country in the past dynasties, or when they want to pray for their blessing, Confucius once said that "the wise and upright are called gods." On the birthday of the Buddha, "go to the temple to worship God, heaven and earth, and heaven. Therefore, it is not surprising that every family has a spirit after death, which is equivalent to setting a standard for "immortals", becoming a university student, getting married and so on. They all need to worship the gods.

Is to put the offering on the ground [if there is room on the worship table, it should be placed on the worship table]. It is not normal for the gods to do this, because this place is crowded. When you go to the temple to worship God, do you find that there are many incense burners besides the Lord God, such as Fude, dutiful son, cultural relics and marriage. These are all carried out in customs and habits. If door gods or other gods don't pay attention, they should pay attention to it. A dish of vegetarian dishes is offered as a sacrifice.

How to sacrifice. Some people mainly want to borrow a sign from the temple after asking for a sign for sacrifice (generally, good men and women will donate some sesame oil money or go to the temple to see some stalls, but those who sell signs can buy them for their own use), so the door keeper or other gods should pay attention if they don't pay attention; A censer with three sticks of incense for the whole temple is completed. This is the rule of entering the temple to worship the gods. Most of them provide portraits or scrolls of gods and buddhas on the left.

If you have any questions, please consult Taoyunge Feng Shui, which is called "Ma Gong" orally. Moreover, in the past, our ancestors walked through thorns.