Black wedding dresses swept the whole network on 20 18. A girl just held a simple wedding, but it caused a lot of controversy. Some people think that girls should not wear black clothes when getting married, but should wear festive clothes. Some people think that there is nothing wrong with this girl's practice. She is the master of her own marriage and doesn't care about other people's eyes. This girl wore a black wedding dress and married the man she loved, but this girl is different from other girls. Her body is covered with tattoos. For girls, tattoos are definitely a sign of not studying hard, so many people think that this girl will not behave after marriage. The girl worked in a nightclub before she got married. At that time, she was the kind of woman with great personality. She has her own plan. Actually, her husband is a rich second generation.
The pursuit of boys Many people think that this girl marries him because she likes the identity of the other person, but it is not. Her husband pursued her for many years, but the girl refused, but her husband never gave up. In the end, the girl was moved by her husband's persistence, and the two entered the marriage hall. Many people are prejudiced against this girl, especially the older generation. They think that this girl works in a nightclub, covered in tattoos and wearing a black wedding dress, and her marriage will not be happy.
The girl changed, but after the girl got married, she changed a lot. She also knows what she wants and what she wants. Now her marriage has become an enviable marriage, and her husband has loved her for many years, which makes people envy such a relationship. This girl became the pearl of her husband's hand. After getting married, the girl chose to return to the family and choose husband and wife. Many people say that marriage is very important to women. Marriage is a woman's second birth. Choose a good marriage and live a carefree life. If your marriage is unhappy, the rest of your life will be very painful. The girl in a black wedding dress chose the right marriage, so her life became so gorgeous. She has become a good wife and mother. If she can't cook, she will study hard to cook, wash clothes and study hard.
The pursuit of a girl he just wants to go back to his family, take care of the children at home and accompany his husband. She has long hair. Now her life is in sharp contrast with before, giving the impression that this girl is very virtuous. If the girl hadn't been wearing a black wedding dress, it wouldn't have attracted many people's attention. It is because black is a bad symbol that there are so many controversies. But now, the girl doesn't regret her original decision. Her husband likes her, too. She was not forced to wear a white wedding dress or wash off her tattoos when she got married. As long as his wife likes him, she will respect him. We can see from the boy's behavior that he loves his wife very much.
The Importance of Marriage Happiness Nowadays, many men are male chauvinist. If they feel that they have decided something, their wives must do it. Many men don't spoil and love their wives like this. 80% of men will definitely let their wives wear white wedding dresses, and they don't want outsiders to look at their marriage with secular eyes, so this man is worth learning. If you want a happy marriage, you must first know how to love your wife. If you don't understand love, it will only make your marriage break up faster. Now this girl in a black wedding dress just wants to be a sensible and kind wife and a sensible and kind daughter-in-law, which can satisfy her parents-in-law and make her husband spoil herself all the time. This is the change of girls.
How is that girl now? After the wedding, the girl faded out of public view, so many people were curious. How is she? Do you still hang out in nightclubs all day? So someone reported it. Although the girl at the wedding at that time really had a personality, she seemed to be a tough girl. But girls have returned to their families after marriage. I started teaching each other and quit my job at the nightclub.
Now it is an ordinary person to take care of children at home with peace of mind. There is no situation that netizens think that they will go out to work in the future regardless of their families or even respect their elders. This is just netizens' prejudice against her. Although she has tattoos and looks different from ordinary girls, it doesn't mean she has a problem. On the contrary, now she is particularly virtuous and sensible, knowing that she has to take care of her family, and she and her husband are also very loving.
Don't be prejudiced against this girl, although the girl's black wedding dress and tattoo attracted a lot of people's attention at that time, because in everyone's eyes, a normal wedding should be a white wedding dress worn by a girl or a China dress. So this girl with personality was not accepted by everyone at that time, but it didn't mean anything. Perhaps in the eyes of ordinary parents, such a girl looks restless, so it is unacceptable in traditional families. They just want a good daughter-in-law who is sensible and kind, but you know, there is no daughter-in-law who can satisfy parents 100%. And we don't know whether the man's parents really don't like this girl, but it doesn't look like this to me.
The bride works in a nightclub. At first, their love was not valued by anyone, and girls' clothes were often "commented". But the groom was not afraid of worldly eyes, and he fell in love with her for six years. At the wedding scene, both of them were in tears, and this relationship finally survived the secular world and was blessed by everyone. In a blink of an eye, many years have passed, and that cool and shy girl has become a mother. Look at her latest video. At that time, the buzz cut was gone and the heavy makeup faded. The arrogance in the brow has also turned into gentleness, which makes netizens lament that being a mother can really change a person willingly.
A girl is recognized by her parents because if she doesn't like her, she won't be allowed to marry in her own home, because it is said that the girl and her husband didn't get married until six years later, and when the wedding was held at that time, both parents must know what the wedding was like. So the girl's idea at that time was affirmed by the man's parents. Since the parents agreed, where did the prejudice of netizens come from? Moreover, this is someone else's wedding, and what it looks like as an adult is also based on people's preferences. Netizens really don't need to be pessimistic here.
Don't care too much about other people's eyes. Actually, from my personal point of view, I admire this girl very much. Because she may have known that there would be external pressure, even pointing fingers, to hold such a wedding, but she was not afraid and did not change her wedding because of this. But according to their own ideas to do this wedding, this girl is really brave, but also can see that the girl's husband really loves her. He is willing to respect girls' ideas and give them the wedding they want. And love is mutual, because the man respects the woman's idea and gives her enough love, so after marriage, the woman is willing to give up her job for the man, even her hobbies, and willingly tutor the children.
The power of love is great, and now she and her husband live a happy life. She changed her makeup and clothes precisely because of the power of love, which is different from her reluctance to secular oppression and is willing to change for her family and children. Now she is at home, her husband is working hard outside, and a happy life has blocked everyone's long mouths. The previous ridicule and denial are invalid, and happiness will never be defined casually by the outside world. Happiness is always in your own hands. "Love is separated by mountains and seas, and the boundary between mountains and seas can be flat." Only the power of love is great in this world. For today's society, we should give others more tolerance and understanding, and less prejudice and ridicule. After all, the definition of happiness is different.
The initial face of marriage for this society, in fact, there are many uncertainties in marriage. Many people say that marriage is the grave of love. Nowadays, many older young people are reluctant to get married. In fact, they are full of fear of marriage. However, according to Pepe's marital status, in fact, marriage needs two people to run together, and both husband and wife need to pay together, understand and care together. If they can do this, every marriage will be very happy. Marriage will not be as vigorous as love. Everyone's marriage is believed to be dull most of the time, but smart women will find a little passion to be the regulator of marriage in dullness. The true meaning of marriage is long-term companionship. No matter what happens, we will never leave each other. This should be the true face of marriage!
At that time, their wedding was completely in accordance with the wishes of the bride and groom, so they were very happy when they got married. Although their black wedding has attracted a lot of attention on the Internet, most people still admire the girl's personality. Many netizens said that they also want to try such an alternative and personalized wedding. After getting married, the bride didn't leave her job in the nightclub. Their life now is dull and happy.