I feel that in this era, whether it is marriage or individuals, like duckweed, it is becoming more and more insecure.

At a western-style wedding, the person in charge of the wedding will ask the bride and groom: bride/groom, would you like to take the oath of marriage with the man/woman in front of you? Whether you are poor or rich, whether you are healthy or sick, you are willing to spend it with him and cherish him until the day of your life.

The newcomer answers yes again! I know.

Unfortunately, vows are often beautiful and full. Unfortunately, in the face of reality, they are often vulnerable.

Because his wife fell ill and became a vegetable, Xiao Hao, a young man in Changsha, finally sued for divorce from his wife when he exhausted his family wealth. This is the second time he has filed for divorce. The first divorce was rejected by the court. This time, the court also thought that the reality was appropriate. The same Xiao Hao divorced.

Never leave these four words is easy to say, but in fact it is a responsibility as heavy as Mount Tai.

There is a community in my hometown. The old man was paralyzed in bed by a stroke many years ago, and several children were working outside the home. All of them could only rely on their elderly wives to take care of the old man.

On holidays, the neighborhood Committee will organize everyone to visit him together. Old people are always clean. Although he doesn't walk very neatly, he can stand up and look ruddy and healthy.

I remember someone who felt that his wife had suffered a lot before she recovered like this.

Think about it, too. How difficult is it to take care of a person who can't take care of himself? It's very tiring to wipe your body, dress and wash, massage and rebuild, take medicine on time, and even eat to accommodate the patient's diet. It's tiring to do such a thing all day, let alone year after year.

And these, for caregivers, whether mentally, physically or economically, have considerable pressure, so I really understand the young man's divorce appeal in Changsha.

It's just that I remember the writer Li once wrote that no one will live without experiencing disease, pain and disaster.

The moment you choose marriage, you shoulder the responsibility for a family.

What kind of choice to make depends on our own choice. Unfortunately, in this era, we have too much helplessness and it is not easy to ask for a clear conscience.