On April 16, a couple in Wenzhou stopped at expressway to quarrel, but the woman actually asked the man to kneel down and admit his mistake. Man: "Is it okay to kneel down and not be together?" Then he really knelt down. Seeing her boyfriend kneeling to break up, the woman was very excited and cried to her boyfriend: "How much did you say I spent for you!" " In the end, the two were taken away by Wenzhou traffic police after their emotions calmed down. It is common for couples to have conflicts in the process of getting along, but it is unwise to ask each other to kneel down and admit their mistakes in order to win or lose.

Asking the other person to kneel will only make him more disgusted. When lovers have conflicts and quarrels, they often make some unwise decisions. When girls run away from home, they talk about the word "break up", and even like the way girls ask their boyfriends to kneel and apologize in hot spots in Weibo. In fact, these are the most stupid ways to solve contradictions. Especially when girls quarrel, boys are required to kneel down and admit their mistakes. Although this will bring you a temporary pleasure, it will directly lead to the occurrence of emotional irrelevance, because in men's hearts, dignity is an extremely noble thing, as Connor, a famous emotional expert, said, "The deepest nature of a man is to be understood, respected and worshipped." If you take away his most basic dignity and face as a man, you will only leave resentment in his heart. Only by not being self-centered can the two sides communicate peacefully.

Everyone has an inertia, that is, when there is a contradiction, they will rationalize their behavior. However, this practice is not an effective way to solve the problem, on the contrary, it will lead to the soaring contradictions. In fact, there will be contradictions in the process of getting along with feelings, which is often the case. Sometimes, girls commit suicide because they are insecure to attract their boyfriends' attention. I don't want the quarrel in my mouth to turn into hand-to-hand combat. As long as there are contradictions, don't argue with the other party, don't say angry words, think from the other party's point of view, don't be self-centered, first agree with the other party's point of view, then admit your mistakes, and then communicate with the other party after the mood has eased. This is the best way to solve the problem.

Sometimes feelings are just because the sense of demand is too strong, and there will be more contradictions and quarrels. In order to reduce the probability of conflict in the process of love and make the other person love you more and value you more, you must first understand how to consider the other person's feelings and understand, respect and trust in the process of getting along, which is the basic point of maintaining a long-term love relationship.