When you get married, prepare a gift by yourself, that is, prepare a gift for all the relatives and friends present, and send a blessing to yourself in return for the relatives and friends present. In the past, couples didn't prepare hand-held gifts when they got married, but now it is more popular to prepare hand-held gifts. Of course, there are also rules on the time to send hand-held gifts.

Generally, it is held on the wedding day, and then handed over to all the relatives and friends present. It is not that all the relatives and friends present here have a gift, but that every family should send a gift. How to ensure that each family gives gifts by hand is actually very simple, that is, it depends on who has prepared red envelopes and sent them directly to friends and relatives.

Historical background:

"Accompanying hands" means giving gifts to people, and in ancient times it means "accompanying gifts". In addition, it also refers to wedding gifts given to guests after the wedding. In the past, China society was an agricultural society with strong human feelings. Whenever they go out or go home, they will bring some small gifts to their relatives and friends to show their concern and courtesy.

These hand-made gifts are not expensive and precious products, but represent the emotional connection between people. Just a small hand holding a gift represents the giver's mind, which can be described as light and affectionate.

In modern society, the hand-holding ceremony is not only a small gift that pays attention to connecting feelings, but also a proper term for the commercial marketing of famous products and specialties all over the world, and it also provides ready-made choices for people who hold the hand-holding ceremony. Some products with local characteristics have become synonymous with accompanying gifts. There are many shops selling calligraphy under the banner of Zhengqi in Macau.