China has a profound cultural heritage, and each city has its own unique story. China's beauty and delicious food have caused "China fever" abroad. Many foreigners come to China to play one after another, and even many foreigners have changed from traveling to settling down because they like China. It is normal to meet foreign friends in the street now.
Love is a heartfelt emotion, regardless of national boundaries or race. Today's reform and opening up, like in ancient times, no longer cares about the right family, but is connected by blood. I care more about the feeling of being together with each other and the excitement of love at first sight and love at second sight.
More and more transnational love appears around us, which has become the normal state of today's society.
Transnational relations between young people and old people
I don't know if you have heard, but a 43-year-old uncle from Henan, China married a 25-year-old girl from Africa. Everyone has heard of foreign love. I think it is the first time for many people to hear that there is such a big age gap between the old and the young.
Even in today's high-speed information dissemination, such news is of course still dumbfounded and set off a discussion boom. There are different opinions about this matter, but many people say that they love each other and age is not a problem.
The uncle's name is Xie Xiaowei, and he is an out-and-out China farmer. It stands to reason that the chance that Xie Xiaowei meets an African girl in China is one in ten thousand.
The meeting between Xie Xiaowei and his youngest wife, China, should be regarded as an invisible project. As a country of etiquette, China is still a developing country, but China has strong economic strength. While developing, we should not forget to help other countries in need and show their great country demeanor.
In 20 13, China went to Kampala to build expressway, and Xie Xiaowei came to Africa as a aid worker with a company in Ningbo, Zhejiang, where she met and fell in love with an African girl, Nablia.
The first obstacle to cross-border love is language. Xie Xiaowei has been a farmer all his life. Because of his poor family, he didn't go to school and didn't know a few words. Don't speak English, Mandarin is also stuttering.
However, language did not hinder the sweetness of the lovers. At first, they communicated their feelings in the most primitive way-sign language. After all, sign language is not as beautiful as language, nor can it better express the love that is about to overflow. Emotion is great because it can connect two unrelated people and make them change for each other.
In order to warm up their feelings better, they began to learn each other's languages. Nablus teaches Xie Xiaowei English, and Xie Xiaowei teaches Nablus the dialect of her hometown.
After the aid, Nabilia followed Xie Xiaowei to China, where she exploded and married a foreign daughter-in-law. This is the first time to see you in this small village. Moreover, the other party is a 25-year-old African girl. At that time, the villagers all ran to Xie Xiaowei's house to see the African girl. An endless stream of villagers barely stepped on the threshold of Xie Xiaowei. This is the first time Nablia has felt the enthusiasm of China people.
At that time, rural ideas were relatively backward. Many people disapprove of Xie Xiaowei marrying nabil, but love can be destroyed by a few words from others, so Xie Xiaowei married this beautiful African girl and went home.
The Daily Life of China's Daughter-in-law
Nablia is a very diligent girl. She is proficient in raising chickens, pigs, farming and washing dishes. In the morning, she went to the fields to farm with other kannika nimtragol in the village. When she got home, she began to raise pigs and chickens, no different from those kannika nimtragol in the village. Of course, she was able to get started so quickly because she often helped her family when she was in Africa.
Not only that, she also learned to cook Chinese food, and it was delicious. If it weren't for her distinctive skin, the villagers almost mistook her for a wife.
Now Xie Xiaowei and Nablia are pregnant with a son, and now they are in kindergarten. Although there is a school bus every day, Nablia still walks for more than ten minutes every day to pick up her children from the village.
Although farm work is busy every day, Xie Xiaowei's mother is old and can only do some light work. Most of the work that requires physical strength is done by Nablia alone.
But Nablia is not reluctant, but likes her life now. Perhaps in Nablia's eyes, this life is simple and full, and more is to be happy with the people you love every day.
From the beginning, the villagers resisted the foreign daughter-in-law, gradually moved by Nablus' diligence and honesty, and began to praise the foreign daughter-in-law. After staying in China for a long time, Nablus became half China.
She speaks Chinese fluently, especially in Henan dialect. Anyone who doesn't look at her face will say that she is from Henan. She is very polite. When sending children to school in the morning, she will say goodbye early when she meets familiar or unfamiliar villagers. She will not refuse anyone's family to borrow anything or ask for help, but will enthusiastically help.
Moreover, she is very smart. She can learn many things as soon as she learns them, and she can understand them at a glance. The villagers often say that "this foreign daughter-in-law is not only smart and capable, but also warm-hearted", just like a kind-hearted big sister next door. "
Nablus not only conquered the hearts of Eddie Cheung, but also his family. Xie Xiaowei's mother also praised the foreign daughter-in-law. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very harmonious, and they are rarely seen quarreling.
Now Nablia lives the daily life of an ordinary daughter-in-law in China and becomes a very authentic daughter-in-law in China.
China Problems Encountered by Foreign Daughters-in-law
Although Nablia has been integrated into China's extended family, there are no barriers to language communication. But after all, China's culture is profound, and a word has many different interpretations and different pronunciations.
Some words are difficult for China people to express correctly, not to mention this daughter-in-law who came all the way from Africa.
I think Nablia will misunderstand others because of language in her life. Couples also get along because of some family chores or important decisions. It is inevitable that there will be arguments because of unfamiliar language and incorrect words, and there will also be arguments because of misunderstanding each other's meaning.
There will be differences between people, and two people who get along closely will also have quarrels. But I think as long as the feelings are strong, this little quarrel can also be used as a "love additive" in life. Occasionally quarreling can promote the feelings of husband and wife and let both sides know each other better.
The second is cultural differences. After years of reform and opening up, many ideas left by our ancestors have been deeply rooted in people's hearts. Foreign countries are open-minded, while China is conservative.
Especially in rural areas of China, ideological conservatism will be deeper. Mainly manifested in the difference of the three views. If there's any difference. Most foreigners advocate that you can try, whether it is successful or not. China people will think it over, and if they think it is not feasible, they will not work hard on it. Foreigners pay attention to the process, while China people pay attention to the result.
Although it will lead to quarrels, it is also an ideological progress. Two kinds of ideas will always produce new ideas in the fierce collision. For Nablia, she can be a little more stable on the basis of retaining her own ideas. For Xie Xiaowei, the courage to try is something he needs to improve.
Third, it must be running away from home. Nablia came to China from far away Africa, although China's material living standard is obviously higher than that in Africa. But hometown is hometown after all, and we often say that a nest of gold and silver is not as good as our own kennel.
It undoubtedly takes courage to leave one's relatives and friends and come to a strange country for love, especially for a girl, no matter which country, race or gender, she is very uneasy to be far away from her hometown.
Coupled with the different language environment, it is easy to cause psychological panic. Therefore, Nablus' courage is commendable. Fortunately, Xie Xiaowei was very considerate to Nablia, and Nablia won the gambling of love.
Only in the dead of night, she will look at the bright moon in the sky, miss the clouds in her hometown and miss her relatives and friends in her hometown. Everything in China is a new beginning, and she is also trying to integrate into this strange environment.
She is tired and wronged. But love has given her infinite strength, which can make her take root and sprout in a new country. She never cared that others gave her a different look. Reconciliation with Eddie Cheung, she has a steady stream of courage.
Summary:
Now, she reconciles that Eddie Cheung is a model husband and wife that everyone envies. Her amiable mother-in-law, dignified and strong son and warm neighbors all made her feel gratified. This period of love in a foreign country, old and young, which is not valued by people, has come to a satisfactory end here. Everything will be fine, and all shall be well.