It is an old saying that men should be married and women should be married, which is also a reflection of the needs of real life. However, even if college students have the marriage conditions stipulated in China's marriage law and both sides have a strong desire to get married and start a family, they should be cautious and rational about getting married and start a family. The fundamental task of college students is to complete their studies, constantly improve and improve themselves, and to get married and start a family in a hurry before going to society will have a lot of negative effects on their study and life and increase a lot of troubles.

2. Take responsibility and fulfill obligations

Marriage not only represents two of a kind, but also represents responsibilities and obligations. Once college students get married and start a family, they should immediately adjust and change their roles and assume corresponding responsibilities and obligations. This is not only the requirement of marriage and family ethics, but also the provision of marriage law. Marriage cannot be simply understood as a romantic proposal ceremony and a luxurious wedding ceremony. We should deeply understand the responsibilities and obligations of marriage and family, and jointly create a happy marriage and family.

3. Correctly handle family relations

Once college students get married, they have their own small families. Besides dealing with the relationship between small families, we should also deal with the relationship with the original extended family. Because college students are basically pure consumers at school, it is inevitable to get a lot of family expenses from large families. Therefore, we should plan rationally, do what we can, be diligent and frugal, and try not to add too much burden to our parents.