There is something to say to Xi Nian: It really doesn't matter how many times you fall in love. As long as you meet the right person, whether he comes first or later, it is appropriate to marry him.

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I was delayed on my way to my girlfriend's party at the weekend. When I arrived, I found the atmosphere very dull. I thought something was wrong. I just found out when I asked, my friend A broke up again. Counting this time, she has been in love for more than five times.

At the party, A drank one cup after another, until at last, she cried and pulled everyone to say that a person had to fall in love three times before he could get married, once for forgetting his first love, once for growing up, and finally for the end of time.

Several friends echoed after listening to it, and they all felt that it seemed very reasonable.

Only s refuses to accept it. It doesn't matter how many times you fall in love. Who can guarantee that you will grow up after experiencing someone? Talk more and see more, and you may grow more comprehensively.

But another friend Z was not happy when he heard this. We talked once and got married. She thinks that the less love she talks about, the more suitable she is to get married, because there are too many examples of breaking up for her ex, and there is no ex at all, so there is no such contradiction.

The two men held their own words, and soon they were flushed. I was listening to the head.

I just want to say that it doesn't matter how many times you fall in love, as long as you meet the right person, whether he comes first or later, it's no problem to marry him.

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In fact, in my opinion, what my friend S said has some truth, but falling in love is not an accusation and escalation. It is cruel to practice experience with one person.

When two people are together, the most important thing is to run in. There is no perfect couple in the world. If you live with someone who suddenly appears in your life, there will be many problems.

In the process of solving this problem, your relationship may get better or worse. If it is the former, congratulations, you have found the right person for you, and it is inevitable to make a positive result.

If it is the latter, it's no big deal. As long as you put your heart into this relationship, even if the final result is parting ways, it is unusual.

Let's talk about friend Z. She thinks that the ex is an important factor that delays two people to the end, so it is best to get married after falling in love once.

But in fact, the focus of the question is the number of times you fall in love? No, even if there is no predecessor, there may be colleagues, netizens and all kinds of opposite sex.

In the final analysis, whether you can make a positive result depends on whether the other party recognizes you. If you have a good relationship, then no one can destroy it. If your relationship is average, you will definitely break up at random.

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Therefore, it doesn't matter how many times you fall in love. You can't leave your present job just because you want to see if there is a better lover behind you, and you can't rush to find someone to marry because you don't want to fall in love again.

The most important thing is to find a person who really suits you, feel love from the heart, rely on each other and take care of each other. When you find such a person, no matter what date he is, he is suitable for marriage.

Finally, you should know that following your heart, love is love, and not loving is not loving. You know best who you are happy with.

Catch someone who has an appetite for you, and don't wait for your lover to leave to regret it. Similarly, if you feel unhappy in a relationship at the moment, let go and pursue a true lover.

A person's life is short. Do what you think is right, love the person who is worthy of love, don't restrain your heart, don't let yourself go. Only in this way can you be happy.