I have been with my boyfriend for many years and have a good relationship. I work in Shenyang and he is a soldier in Mudanjiang. He loves me very much, is also very filial, and works hard when he has gout. I am not a military wife, but I am still a man, but love should not be the whole of life. If you quit your job and go to him, you will lose everything you have now. It is better for girls to be independent. Or if you really regard him as your life, go to him and take care of him. I admire your courage. How to decide this matter is up to you. Think it over.