The first trick: be more patient.
Many times, the old people think that you don't care about her and that you don't have a sense of existence, so they think of various ways to find a sense of existence. At this time, you need to be more patient with her and let her feel her importance, so that she won't make trouble. This situation is generally that the newly retired old man doesn't know what to do after retirement and feels that he has no sense of existence, so you need to listen to her troubles patiently, or help her find something to do, and don't let her be idle.
The second trick: spend more time with her.
No matter how busy you are at work, you should take time to accompany the elderly. After all, everyone is old, and the old man hopes that you can spend more time with her and don't make her feel lonely. If you spend a few days with her a day, she will be happy. Spend more time with her, so that she won't have time to think, and she won't think. Accompanying the elderly is not only a backup obligation, but also a responsibility!
The third measure: appropriate retrogression.
If the old man is unreasonable and exaggerated, and communication is completely useless, then stop talking and give her some time to digest herself and let her reflect. Proper retrogression is for better chat. Don't play hardball if you can't chat. Stiff is not good!
The fourth measure: empathy
It is said that old people are like children, and sometimes they behave strangely. At this time, we need to put ourselves in each other's shoes. With a big age gap, there is bound to be a generation gap. After encountering something, we should think more from their standpoint, so that we can know what they want and what she wants, and then we can prescribe the right medicine!
The fifth measure: understand the elderly.
The living habits of the elderly are different from ours. Take sleeping as an example, there are different views. Generally speaking, a very nice old man, Sun Xiaohui, will have conflicts in many habits because he lives with his daughter-in-law. After the contradiction arises, the old people will cry and complain that their children always talk to their spouses and say that they have a baiwenhang. In fact, it seems a bit unreasonable to outsiders. In an acceptable range, quarreling should give way to some old people, who are sometimes naive!
The old people at home are immoral and love to work. Xiaomi can easily get it with these five tricks, and the effect is not bad. In fact, old people want to pay more attention to their work and their mood in life!