First of all, visiting relatives is no longer a way to connect feelings, but a process. In rural areas, many young people choose to work in cities and have less and less contact with relatives other than their parents. Maybe they meet once a year. Sometimes they don't even know who he is. Even without this relative, they can live alone. It doesn't matter if the connection is important.

When visiting relatives, they will not choose to eat at home. I think the economic situation is different now. Even if you don't eat at your relatives' house, you can eat well at home or go out for a big meal. Besides, eating at home will be more comfortable. Then why stay at a relative's house for dinner? Traffic is much better than before. In the past, transportation in rural areas was very inconvenient. Sometimes it may take hours to go to a relative's house. It's too late to talk again. If it is too late, relatives will let them stay at home by themselves. It will be more convenient to get up and walk the next day. But now basically every family will have a car, even if there is no car, the traffic is very convenient, and you can leave on the same day!

Feelings faded, more realistic. In the past, everyone farmed at home, and relatives and friends often met and changed jobs. At that time, it was very important to maintain relations with relatives and neighbors. Busy farming and weddings require the help of relatives and neighbors. Everyone pays great attention to their relatives and neighbors and needs to move frequently. At present, most farmers go out to work and don't see each other several times throughout the year.

Now weddings and funerals are also done by special wedding and arranged teams, and there is no need to mobilize so many relatives and neighbors to help as before. Therefore, the feelings between relatives and neighbors will be relatively weak, and people will become more realistic with the increase of life pressure.