As you described it,' especially if the leader is here, it will be uncomfortable'. Then this leader must not be invited. Why should you make yourself unhappy when you get married?
Those who hurt the leader's face can only say that you are' sour' and' smelly'. You put yourself in others' shoes. You are the leader. Your subordinate didn't invite you to get married, and then the subordinate struggled whether to invite you or not.
There are more than 30 people in your department, and you only know them. In what name did you invite more than 30 people to the wedding reception? In the name of "colleagues in the same department", there will not be many people, and only a red envelope will be given because of time or nothing, or it will be embarrassing if someone doesn't know your name because you look familiar.
Finally, who should be invited to the wedding? My opinion is to invite people who think they are important in their lives, not' who should be invited' or' who needs to be invited': I will send you a letter I wrote about who I will invite if the Monkey King gets married, hoping to give you some hints. The Monkey King's banquet list: Huaguoshan, his birthplace, is his hometown, and his hometown people must invite him. In addition, there are several sworn brothers here, but later Niu Wangmo was not friendly but indifferent to the Monkey King. Well, forget it, I won't invite these sworn brothers. Later, he was invited by the first martial arts master to make a scene in heaven and become the manager of Bi, which is omitted here. Found that no one was invited. Later, it was pinned down by the Tathagata at the foot of the mountain for hundreds of years. During these hundreds of years, he occasionally greeted and chatted with a family at the foot of the mountain, but he had heart-to-heart communication. If the family still tries to invite them to the wedding, if they can't come, they should also send a wedding candy. Later, I followed the Tang Priest to the Western Heaven, where I stayed with Tang Priest's apprentice and several others. Although XXX and I have a heart-wrenching and painful relationship all the way, our journey together has a final ending. . Master and apprentice were invited to the wedding. Oh, I remember now, Guanyin Bodhisattva. Guanyin bodhisattva is always warm, just like relatives, just like' you monkey head'. In the process of learning the scriptures, I fought monsters all the way. Among the invited immortals, a group of weapons are in a mess. When Wukong was locked in a sealed weapon, a man got into his corner. . When dealing with these people, Wukong got along well with them, just like a group of music enthusiasts met their favorite concerts. They must invite them. That's it. This is Wukong's guest banquet list.