Hello, buddy, I'm from Zhutai. How much is the engagement? It's up to you to buy jewelry or not. There is a change fee. My parents gave me a exchange fee of 1000 per person. . . Engagement 38800, jewelry 1 ten thousand ... and money, that is, meeting for the first time 100 1, buying two clothes for the object from the inside out. . . That's basically it. . I will discuss it with my mother-in-law. If you are nice, you can say it anyway. . I wish you success! .