Marriage is an experience and a test for both men and women. The test is not only love, but also personality and whether we can be happy in the future.

And the wedding, is equivalent to, two people in love before getting married hand in hand, as if after the last hurdle. Many people, playing beautifully, give their feelings directly to others for happiness; There are also some people who have kicked off love and never kicked into marriage again. As a result, there were many embarrassing things at the wedding scene.

I have seen a lot of wonderful things about weddings in the media recently. Either there was a problem when asking for the sky-high bride price, or later at the wedding, because of the lack of the change fee, people became angry and had conflicts. Some people were forced to pay high fares when they got off the wedding car. As a result, the groom was completely annoyed and announced the cancellation of the wedding. There are really many examples.

Not long ago, a relative told me an incident that happened when she attended a friend's child's wedding. She finds it hard to accept, and she really can't figure out that a good marriage is unhappy because of a little thing. Up to now, things have not been handled well. The relative said that not long ago, she attended the wedding of her best friend's son. Unexpectedly, a big party turned into a joke. So far, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not at peace, and things are still consumed here-

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The bride's name is Zhang Qing and the groom's name is Li Jun. They are high school classmates. After graduating from high school, Zhang Qing was admitted to a higher vocational school and studied for two years. After graduation, with the help of her family, she worked as an office worker in a company. Li Jun graduated from high school and was admitted to a 2 1 1 university. He found a good job after graduation. When Li Jun was a junior, he attended a high school reunion and got in touch with Zhang Qing. At that time, Zhang Qing had already started to work, and she was beautifully packed, which immediately attracted Li Jun. Two people chatted and talked about their feelings.

However, their feelings were still opposed by the two families. The reason is that Li Junren is very introverted, and his hometown is a township. Although his home is in town, the conditions are not very good. Therefore, I look down on his family. Although Li Jun's university is good, in the eyes of Zhang Qing's parents, college students are not rare, and they still can't make money without ability. It is better to do business by salary. However, they also mentioned that if they agreed, they hoped that Li Jun would be the son-in-law of the house, so that they could not have a wedding room or a bride price. However, they were opposed by Li Jun. Zhang Qing's parents were all in business, and they didn't like this so-called Phoenix man. Conceptually, money is used to measure the future.

Li Jun's parents also objected at first, because they thought that Li Jun had not graduated. If you talk about feelings too early, you should consider your future girlfriend. If you don't let go of your ideas and dare not develop outward, it will delay your future. Besides, I think the education level in Zhang Qing is very low. Besides, she is not too tall, and she is a girl who grew up in the city. She is not right at home, fearing that her son will be looked down upon in the future, and then they will be unhappy.

However, neither of them can overcome the feelings of the two children. The two privately agreed to stay together. In the end, there is no way, and the two adults can only agree. During this period, due to the opposition of Li Jun's parents, Zhang Qing had a bad impression on them. Several times, Li Jun asked her to go to his house with him, but she didn't go. Occasionally walk with emotion, no eye expression, and no sweet mouth. Li Jun's parents don't like this future daughter-in-law. So, not enthusiastic enough. Zhang Qing and Li Jun's family have been fighting in secret.

Later, a year after Li Jun graduated, the two men talked about getting married. On the bride price, Zhang Qing's parents said that the requirements were not high, but not too bad. According to local customs, it is generally around 6,543,800 yuan. However, Li Jun's parents are determined not to give so much. Zhang Qing's parents insisted that losing a point was not enough. I almost collapsed. Finally, Zhang Qing secretly took out the household registration book at home and got the certificate from Li Jun privately. Then, she lied to her parents that not marrying Li Jun would make a fool of herself. Obviously, although her parents were very angry, they had to submit to humiliation. Li Jun's parents were also very angry when they learned that their son and the woman had obtained the certificate privately. However, since raw rice is cooked, I won't say anything. I have to go to work. The bride price paid 50 thousand. In addition, it is said that at the wedding, the change of mouth fee is more, and the agreement is 30,000, which is considered to ease the relationship. Now, the two families have reluctantly accepted it. Then, the marriage is happy.

The wedding is scheduled for 1 October1day. Everything went well, and friends and relatives came to congratulate them happily. But I never thought there would be a problem at the wedding. As soon as the bride and groom changed their words, the bride immediately called her father-in-law and called her father. My father-in-law gave her a red envelope, which was very thin, and the bride's expression suddenly became unnatural. Generally speaking, the change fee at this time is often a thick red envelope. Zhang Qing later told her relatives that when she held it in her hand, she thought there was at most one hundred pieces in it. If there were four or five pieces, she could hold it. So, she thought, what's going on? What about the agreed 30 thousand? Why did you change your mind? However, because her mother-in-law never changed her mouth, she didn't say anything, thinking that her mother-in-law might give her a large fee.

As a result, when Zhang Qing called her mother and the host asked her mother-in-law to give money, Zhang Qing suddenly collapsed. Intuitively, like my father-in-law's red envelope, it's all thin, and I don't feel anything in my hand. If I have money, I think at most one. So when the master of ceremonies asked her to say thank you to her parents-in-law, she directly took the microphone and turned to tell everyone that she thanked her parents-in-law for their worries and hard work in preparing for the wedding these days, saying that her family's conditions were not good for the time being, and she almost lost everything in order to get married, and she had to give a bride price before, which made her family feel bad about money. Now, it is agreed to pay this change of 30 thousand yuan. Maybe there is no money at home. Therefore, she doesn't want a few hundred pieces of this red envelope at most, and gives it back to her in-laws for emergency.

People on and off the stage are confused and don't know what the bride means. But I feel that the words are wrong. I always feel that I don't like small red envelopes, which is a bit ironic. However, I didn't say it directly, and I understood it as soon as I heard it. The atmosphere at the scene was once very tense.

On the stage, my in-laws are also very angry, but my mother-in-law is very calm. Zhang Qing said, she stood up and took the red envelope. Then, she said slowly, her daughter-in-law is very sensible and can say so. She is really wise. It's really not easy to say that Zhang Qing and Li Jun can go today. At first, both families opposed it, but they never gave up and moved her.

"Finally, I also turned on. I think as long as they love each other, as an old man, I just wish them well. When I gave the bride price before, I was reluctant and didn't do well enough. But now that they have reached the stage of marriage, I completely accept it, and I realize that I didn't do well enough before. Therefore, I intend to give more change fees when Zhang Qing changes his mouth to make up for my embarrassment to them. "

Mother-in-law spoke and then opened the red envelope. Everyone listened quietly, watching her mother-in-law take out the money in the red envelope, and wanted to see how much money her mother-in-law gave before she changed her mouth. As a result, the mother-in-law slowly took out a piece of paper and a deposit slip. She said that this deposit slip, with 200,000 yuan on it, was originally intended as a bride price for her future daughter-in-law. I didn't give it because I was dissatisfied. Now it's due in more than a month and it's dead. Originally, I wanted to give it to them, but when I thought about it, there was no need to make public, so I gave it to them. I didn't expect my daughter-in-law to give me an ugly face at the wedding, which made me embarrassed. ...

Say that finish, mother-in-law in the mind already very not taste, turned and shouted to the background, li jun was so angry that he quickly chased after the past. Zhang Qing's parents couldn't sit still, got up and took their daughter and left. The immediate family members of the two sides under the stage rushed forward to stop the fight, and the scene was once very chaotic. Later, although the wedding reception went on as usual, the couple did not propose a toast, but the man's closest relatives came forward and apologized at the dinner table. ...

It is said that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are still deadlocked, and it is really unknown whether this marriage can continue. ...

Have something to say:

When I heard this story, really, the besieged city has an unspeakable taste, and I don't know how to evaluate it. I am a pair of lovers who love each other. After all kinds of troubles, I finally entered the marriage. They want to be happy, but they don't want to have problems at the last minute. Seemingly accidental, there are still many inevitable factors. I entered the marriage with all kinds of problems, and the differences between the two families laid a hidden danger for the unfortunate marriage.

It is said that love is a matter of two people and marriage is a matter of two families. This is true. It is difficult to get into marriage with bad feelings, and it is difficult for two families to get married happily without good relations. However, in the process of promoting marriage, there will be various problems, which require two families to sit down, communicate, discuss and understand each other.

Many times, many things, once said, often don't have so many misunderstandings. When encountering problems, mutual restraint, finding out the reasons and fighting for them can often reduce many contradictions. Wrong is wrong, the information is not equal, and everyone has emotions. Once the contradiction intensifies, it will be awkward to get along. Here, we still wish Zhang Qing and Li Jun a good solution to this wedding crisis, love each other well and join hands for life. I hope the two families can forget their differences, resolve conflicts and live in harmony.