This not only makes me feel bad, but it is really difficult to get married now. I remember when I got married, my wife's fare was only 200 yuan, and now it's 20 thousand yuan. When I got married, the bride price was 8,000 yuan, but now it is 800,000 yuan, which is simply 100 times that when I got married. How expensive! It's too expensive.
Even so, my mother-in-law is still dissatisfied, and the bride is silent and lowers her head to count money, which makes me wonder, is this marriage or business? What is a bride? Did she marry money or her husband? Is this money for the mother-in-law or in the wife's own hands?
Next, let's answer this question. What is the purpose of the man marrying such a daughter-in-law? This is really good. It's easy to stand and talk! Everyone wants to find a free wife, but this can only be satisfied. Parents really spare no effort to marry their sons. What we see is only more than 800 thousand bride price and hardware facilities such as houses and cars, all of which are indispensable. People can't help feeling that it is really difficult to marry a wife.
This is not a question of what this man wants. What does this man want with his wife? This is the task of parents. The later you marry a wife, the higher the cost and the harder it is to marry a wife. It is a big deal for children to marry a daughter-in-law. If a man marries a daughter-in-law for love, not many people may believe that parents just want to give their son a home and form a family.
Nowadays, in the countryside, many people move out of their houses in order to marry their children. It can be said that they have taken out all their savings, and some of them are still married with debts, hoping that the children can pay off the debts they owe after marriage. But then again, in fact, many debts are still paid by parents. The poor inherit the wind.
800 thousand bride price has just been searched. It's true. The bride price here has risen to 6,543,800 yuan, which makes people feel unacceptable. Anyone who wants 800,000 yuan will definitely scare the young man away, not because he doesn't want to get married, but because he can't afford to get married. The bride price here seems inexpensive.
On the wedding day, the bride is still counting the bride price, for fear that the man will not give enough, which is incredible. I really want to ask the bride whether you married that man or sold yourself to that man, and you still have the heart to go there to count money on your wedding day. What's the point of such a marriage?
The most important thing for two people to be together is to understand and love each other. If their marriage is based on money, such a marriage is unstable and may be unhappy, because such things are likely to become contradictions after marriage, causing family disputes and laying the groundwork for future family disharmony.