When the name Arvin first appeared in the newspaper, she avoided everyone's curious eyes like a frightened rabbit. When it reappeared, we knew her full name-Wang Nawen and her son Yuan Yuan. When the reporter rushed to Shenyang to ask for an exclusive interview with her, she had no previous fear and avoidance, and readily agreed to wait for the reporter at the interview site early. She said she was forced to be the center of attention. Today, as a result of DNA, Gao Feng has to recognize his son. Wang Nawen can finally walk on the stage aboveboard and tell the public what she has experienced over the years, including her sweetness, her bitterness, her laughter and her tears. She calmly came to the reporter together and mentioned the love and hate intertwined at the peak, the laughter and tears intertwined when she mentioned her son, and the British Times. ..... A real Wang Nawen makes people feel sympathy and admiration for this seemingly strong woman.

Now-you can not, but you can't insult.

Reporter: Gao Jiawen, sitting opposite, smiled and carefully added tea for the reporter. She laughed off the recent high-profile lawsuit and picked up a cigarette, but she was not in a hurry to light it. Gao Jiawen smiled beautifully and calmly, with a detachment after vicissitudes. As she said, "I was beautiful when I was young", in fact, the years have not left many marks on her face. In reality, she is far more beautiful than in the camera. Now, the blood relationship between the child and Gao Feng has been decided. Speaking of that man, her eyes are only disdain. "What I do is for the children, definitely not for him."

He is still bargaining for alimony.

The result came out. What can I change? Because as expected, I already know. Why did you come forward? I was forced to do so. He clearly knows that the child is his, and he still wants the child to take the exam. As a father, he is not qualified. The result is 99.9999%, and he never misses the possibility of less than 0. 1%. What a shame. All the evidence proves that the child is his, and he is still bargaining for alimony. He knew all the 16 pieces of evidence he showed, including the house where I lived, the license of the bar, and I sang in a friend's bar to help with my work.

Who let me love him?

I brought up the child alone and didn't want to disturb him in the past. After the incident, the media wanted to speculate. I was so scared that I stayed in Dalian for a month with my children and mother. At that time, I read the newspaper every day, and I saw Gao Feng's friends talking about me in the media, including his mother saying that my son couldn't know this kind of bar girl. I don't care either, because I think what outsiders say is of little value. At that time, Gao Feng probably wanted to test me. He knows I have a strong personality. Since I did it, I won't go to him. My idea at that time was really to let nature take its course, and there was no need to make everyone unhappy. But he suspects that his child is not his. Is that what people say? He may not want us, but he must not insult us. Call me disorderly? After being together for more than a year, you can stop liking me. You can't say that about me. So, I stepped forward, which can be said to be beyond his expectation. I can only take the legal route, and if he doesn't admit it, let him take the exam.

Look at their family photos: whoever loses will know.

At this point, I am no longer sad, but feel relieved. I also saw their family photos taken two days ago. what do you think? Let them go happily. Everyone has his own way of life. They eat seafood and shark fin, and I eat vermicelli. I don't envy them at all. Stand aside and watch: everyone who loses knows. When things first came out, my life was the saddest. The business of the bar plummeted because it had to hide. Those guests who listened to my singing didn't go because I wasn't there. I traded 390,000 for 80,000 in the bar. There was a lot of news at that time. For example, I met Gao Feng's mother, and her mother wouldn't let me in. Later, I was not afraid and wanted to move on. People outside said I did it for the money first, and then for the hype. Who knows this? I can tell you that the first reporter who came to interview me once said that he was invited. At this point, I don't want everyone to sympathize, but as a weak person, I should safeguard my rights and interests.

I'm not a third party.

Looking back now, was it wrong? Maybe, but it's too late. I am half a circle, and Gao Feng and Na Ying really separated at that time. Who didn't have many boyfriends and girlfriends before they got married? They are on and off in the media, aren't they hitting their own mouths? And when I was with Gao Feng, many people in the circle knew it. Say I seduce Gao Feng? What do you mean, it takes two people to succeed? I haven't seduced anyone since I was so big.

■ I have been to the sea-I met a peak in the fifth year.

Reporter: Awen is not good at expressing himself. If he doesn't know clearly, he will close his eyes and rub his forehead with his hand, and then smoke one cigarette after another. Speaking of the past with Gao Feng, there was a faint confusion on her face, and her eyes slowly drifted away. From acquaintance to love, she made a clean break. Speaking of her son, she would call Gao Feng "not a person", but when it comes to the feelings between the two, she never even complained about Gao Feng from beginning to end. She was very devoted. Her ex-boyfriend died unexpectedly before the wedding, and Gao Feng abandoned her mercilessly. This woman, who has experienced too many emotional turmoil, no longer expects love. ...

He said that he liked my personality best.

I didn't fall in love with the peak at first sight. From acquaintance to love, it can be said to be a natural feeling. No one explicitly proposed to establish any relationship, and we were together. Later, they separated, and they didn't mention it clearly. It's just that he suddenly disappeared from my life and was often away from home before, but that time I knew he might not want to come back. I met him once when I was four months pregnant. It was June 2000. He came back to attend the wedding of an old teammate. He called me and asked me to go to his hotel. When he got off work at midnight, he was drunk and fell asleep. I wash my face there myself. After waking up, he turned on the light and said, let me see you. I turned my head and surprised him, because I was particularly pregnant at that time. When I was four months old, I weighed 130 kilograms and had a big face. Later he said, you really want to have a baby. When I am with him, I don't stick to him at all. I never took the initiative to call her. Once, he was drunk, hugged me and said, you know what I like most about you and your personality. Yes, what can I say? What can I care about? People like him can't stand it. I think he is just drunk. He must have forgotten everything when he woke up. It is only a feeling that men and women like each other again, and they can't say it. To tell the truth, maybe because my father is engaged in sports, I have a good impression on sports players since I was a child.

Every relationship will be 100% committed.

I had a boyfriend who had been dating for many years before the peak. 1995, we were scheduled to get married in 10, but in March, he had a car accident. When he left, I swore I would never look for him again for three years. In the fifth year, I met the peak and got pregnant as soon as I got together. Maybe this is fate. In those five years, many people chased me, but they didn't feel the call. Without feeling, there is no love. At that time, Gao Feng and I both liked each other in our hearts, and we could see it with one look and one action. I know something about the peaks outside. I don't care about the impossibility at that time. After listening to the comments made by people outside, I really want to get to know him myself. When I was 2 months pregnant, once, his bag was there, the zipper was not pulled, and a piece of white paper was exposed, so I took it out curiously and looked at it. As a result, he and Na Ying bought the deed together, and I thought at that time, didn't they break up? Why are they still in contact? ...

No longer eager for love, as long as he is good to children.

Find another father for the child? I never thought I would get married again. The child is so sensible, I also want to give him a complete family, but if that person is not good to the child, then everything is impossible. No matter how good it is to me, as long as it is good to the child, it is secondary to me. Anyway, I have come forward now, and everyone knows me. I am not afraid of anything alone. The key is children. ...

■ Tears are like rain-the bitterness of pregnancy, the sweetness of children, and the goodness of parents

Reporter: A Wen said that she seldom cries. When she is in trouble again, she seldom cries in front of others. But she cried twice during the interview, once for her son and once for her parents. A woman is pregnant in October, and the child is all she has. Without the support of men, a woman can live a wonderful life, because as long as there is the laughter of children, she has the whole world. For her parents, her tears are more guilt, as strong as her, maybe she will only cry in her mother's arms.

Think of him as a hospital embryo culture.

I haven't thought about taking it off since the baby was in my stomach. The baby is very good When I was pregnant with him, I never vomited or felt sick. I try to eat because I am afraid that my child is not nutritious. At the heaviest time 182 kg, my son was born at 8 kg and 2 kg, which really made me grow ten kg and my child grew one kg. At that time, the place where I lived was particularly shabby, and my mother took care of me. Now that I think about it, the worst time has passed, and now there is nothing to endure. I gave birth to a baby weighing 163 kg. When I was grounded, I cooked vegetables in chicken soup. Eating only vegetables, I lost 98 pounds a year. Because it's my first time as a mother, I'm particularly nervous, and anyway, a woman like me who has a baby has no fire in her heart, so she has no milk. I especially want to breast-feed her baby, but I have no choice but to breast-feed her. Fortunately, the child is healthy and sensible. Seeing that my son is so young, he will look at me and bring me water when I am sad. I am particularly touched. Think of him as a hospital embryo culture. Now he's all I have. Gao Feng has everything he wants, but now I'm a mother. As long as it comes to children, I don't care who they are, and I will never compromise. As for how to explain this experience to my son in the future, I don't think it's a matter of time before I tell him the truth all my life, but at least after I was 20 years old, I have been writing a diary, but I just didn't consider publishing a book. I just want my son to know that he is so sensible that he will definitely understand it in the future.

This is dirty clothes. You are shameless. I can't take it anymore.

On March 29th, I gave birth to my son. I called Gao Feng, but he didn't answer. After more than four months of pregnancy, they separated. I haven't looked for him since then, and the child hasn't registered until he is over 3 years old. I really have no choice but to call him again, for no other reason than that he has stronger social relations than me. Can you help me? We all changed our numbers because we haven't called for a long time. He answered when I called. He had just had a little car accident, so I told you you were fine. He said nothing, so he scratched his skin. I told him about the hukou, and he immediately shirked that I had been away from Shenyang for so long and I didn't know anyone. Then he asked me warily, what do you want to do? This thing is old. I said you could keep your 200, so I hung up. Up to now, we haven't contacted him again. I tried to contact him, including through his friends, but he just refused to see him. I always think this is a despicable means, and I can't stand your shameless.

The baby said, "I won't cry if mom doesn't cry."

I call him Bao Bao, who looks like me and has a little melancholy personality. I don't think he knows anything. Whenever he asks about his father, I tell him that your father is doing business in America. It was his first time to fly to Beijing, and he was very excited to ask me if I was going to my home in America. Before I went to Beijing, because I had been there several times, I kept telling him, will mom take the baby to Beijing next time? The child is very happy. When I left, I told him that my mother was ill and caught a cold, and she was going to Beijing to see a doctor. The baby happened to have a runny nose. Is it good for the baby and mother to go to the doctor together, and do they need to draw blood or something? The baby also comforted: I am brave if my mother is brave, and I will not cry if my mother does not cry. On the day of blood drawing, he didn't shed a tear.

My children are all I have. Every time children see me walking barefoot on the floor, they will be sensible to bring slippers. In normal times, he may think this child is really funny, but he will feel particularly sad when he thinks about his own experience. I think the child must be like me when he grows up, unlike Gao Feng, because he has a special sense of responsibility since he was a child. His grandmother brought him a doll from Shenzhen, and he called it "son". Once, his aunt accidentally threw the doll on the ground and was scolded by my son for several days. "You threw my son away" and asked his aunt to write a check.

Mom said, "Nothing, I'm here."

I don't cry very often. If it is definitely not because of the peak, I think of my mother and my son every time I cry now. My mother is strong. From the beginning, she said, at your age, you should think about many things yourself. Every time I can't hold on, I will go back to my mother. When I cry, my mother will comfort me: "it's okay, I still have my mother." It's okay. " I always thought my mother was the greatest in the world. When I was confined, my father died, and I was very sad that I couldn't wait on him at the last moment. I have been studying music since I was 6 years old. My father was strict with me, but I didn't get any grades. I still haven't given up my pursuit of music. Now I sing and make my favorite music, as long as someone likes it. Concert is one of my goals for the rest of my life. Some people say that I am hyping, but in fact no company has contacted me, but if someone wants to sign me, why can't I promise? I didn't shoot.

■ Reporter's Notes

An unmarried mother, a woman whose son was dragged by her biological father to have a DNA test, and a focus figure who used to hide from the camera, what kind of words and state will she use to deal with my long-simmering problem when the blood relationship between father and son is revealed to the world? On the train to Shenyang, I have been speculating anxiously about the interview. On the other end of the phone, Gao Jiawen's voice was gentle and calm: "Have you arrived? I'll wait for you in the box. " Gao Jiawen, wearing a black coat and a beige coat, looks in high spirits. He is much more beautiful than in the camera and photos. When a question was thrown out, she naturally began to gush. Although she says that she is all thumbs, although she can't go on occasionally because of emotional excitement, she may have been depressed for too long. During the nearly two-hour interview, she didn't have any scruples as I feared beforehand. Some people say that she is for money, others say that she is for hype. She said, I'm just telling the truth. Although there are some things in her narrative that we can't verify, it is a fact that Gao Feng and the child's father-son relationship. From a mother's point of view, we have no reason to doubt, and we have no heart to doubt. At the end of the interview, Gao Jiawen excitedly took out her wallet and showed me the baby's photo. "This one is not clear enough, and." Then she took out her mobile phone and showed me her baby: "Like me." When she said this, her tone was full of pride, even though her love for Gao Feng was a thing of the past.